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  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:43am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Has kids, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), French (Poorly), C++ (Fluently), LISP (Okay)
My self-summary
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On kinsey scale of sexual preference, I'm about a 2.2

"It is said that humanity has evolved one-sidedly, growing in technical power without any comparable growth in moral integrity, or, as some would prefer to say, without comparable progress in education and rational thinking. Yet the problem is more basic. The root of the matter is the way in which we feel and conceive ourselves as human beings, our sensation of being alive, of individual existence and identity. We suffer from a hallucination, from a false and distorted sensation of our own existence as living organisms- Most of us have the sensation that "I myself" is a separate center of feeling and action, living inside and bounded by the physical body--a center which "confronts an "external" world of people and things, making contact through the senses with a universe both alien and strange. Everyday figures of speech reflect this illusion. "I came into this world." "You must face reality." "The conquest of nature."

This feeling of being lonely and very temporary visitors in the universe is in flat contradiction to everything known about man (and all other living organisms) in the sciences. We do not "come into" this world; we come out of it, as leaves from a tree. As the ocean "waves," the universe "peoples." Every individual is an expression of the whole realm of nature, a unique action of the total universe. This fact is rarely, if ever, experienced by most individuals. Even those who know it to be true in theory do not sense or feel it, but continue to be aware of themselves as isolated "egos" inside bags of skin. "

Alan Watts
_The Book_
What I’m doing with my life
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Just returned to Boston area from Tokyo.

Daily yoga/meditation. Raising two sweet children in a matrix of love with my life partner, and opening myself for meaningful connections with others (poly-friendly).

Consulting for a company that does large light installations.
Working with to promote new media education.
Startup to make color-changing and sometimes programmable lights.
Playing with 3d printers in my spare time.

Life Goals: connect man and machine, fuse nature and metropolis, learn to fly
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thinking I know the solution to a problem.
Some types of self discipline, sometimes.
Using/improving computers.
Fixing things.

Acting, both as a hobby and a fundamental mode of social existence (need to mix with empathy or else one would be a sociopath) Talking/teaching about drugs in social and neurological contexts.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Purple bandanna if I'm wearing one, otherwise my hair. Up close you'll see my blue tinted glasses or my blue eyes. If you look down and the weather's OK you might see a pair of fivefingers.

If I'm on a family outing, you won't notice me at first, you'll notice the rambunctious tykes.

Occasionally, it will be that I'm meditating in public, which has less to do with exhibitionism and more to do with time-management.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A) Books

The Psychopharmacology of Herbal Medicine, The Psychopharmacology of Herbal Medicine (it's that good!)

100 Years of Solitude, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintainance, The Alchemist, Ishmael, DMT: The Spirit Molecule, Down and Out in the Magic Kingdom, Nature Man and Woman

The Boxcar Children Series, A Wrinkle in Time, The Phantom Tollbooth, 1984, One Fish Two Fish Red Fish Blue Fish, Double Trouble Squared

B) Movies

Urusei Yatsura: Beautiful Dreamer, Ugetsu Monogatari, Fight Club, Dogma, Waking Life, Men in Tights, Spaceballs, Miyazaki, The Matrix (I), Star Trek 4, Back to the Future, The Empire Strikes Back

C) Music

This section is a little outdated. Suggest music to me!

First and foremost, anything from VigMusic -- my cousin has excellent tastes and even better skillz.

More generally, anything to which I can dance, sing, work, or trip out. I have been known to appreciate Red Hot Chili Peppers, Bela Fleck and the Flecktones, Tom Waits, The Polyphonic Spree, Wagon Christ,

Infected Mushroom, Schpongle, Higher Intelligence Agency, Adam Freeland, Kraftwork, Lamb, Pamela Martinez, Yuppster

Julian Bream, Ecco The Dolphin, MegaMan 2 and 3, System of a Down, Tom Waits, Erik Satie, Ace of Base, The Beatles, YES, Paul Simon, The Doors

D) Foods

Indian, Japanese, lovingly home cooked!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
lipids, carbohydrates, amino acids, dihydrogen monoxide, gaseous oxygen, sunlight
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
creating good habits, ripples caused by my dead friends, my place in the family of responsible drug geeks, interfaces in technology (ui)

Neuroscience, Pharmacology, Medicine (as a field), Gaia Consciousness, Human-Computer symbiosis, and the Tao.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Now that I'm back from my trip, the new standard for Friday nights has yet to be determined -- suggest something.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I feel really out of whack if I don't do my morning yoga.
You should message me if
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you feel like you already know me, and want to explore that connection.
you don't feel like you know me, but want to get started.
you can get over that nervousness and make the first move. Go for it!