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45 • Chicago, IL • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 5:58am
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Trying to quit
- Other, and very serious about it
- Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
- Dropped out of university
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and has cats
The past year was one of radical transformation. Badically, I am attempting a 180 after years of doing something I am good at, but not very passionate about to earn a living. What that looks like is still unclear. Return to school? Work short term, part time gigs and freelance while volunteering? Other? All? It's a good time for changes!
Literature: I tend toward poetry (especially early 20th C.), non-fiction, and history. Late 18th and 19th C. British novels. I made a pilgrimage to Yorkshire to celebrate that love. Live theater. Thrift store text books.
TV: Sometimes. I like to watch shows in blocks, and don't believe in scheduling life around a box, but adore Buffy. Seriously. I delight in its writing and wit, love introducing it to new people, and watch it on rainy days.
Music: I love hunting for the perfect three minute song. My quest covers everything from classical to jazz, pop to electronica. It's out there, and I will find it! Lately, it's been all about finding songs the suit me at Karaoke and belting them out every Sunday like a banshee. I also love figuring out folk versions of popular songs with friends.
Food: I'm a picky but adventurous eater.
Poetry and song lyrics. When not engaged in active conversation I am reciting something, singing something or writing something, very quietly to myself.
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