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50 M Santa Rosa, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 35–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:17am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats

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My self-summary
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I attempt to treat others as I myself would like to be treated, with respect, compassion and integrity. Sometimes of course I can be a complete bone head, in retrospect, and miss the most apparent social prompts.
Its so much easier to observe others mistakes even while excavating ones own demise. But mostly I'm paying attention and always ready to improve my game.
I'd much rather get together somewhere for a chat and a cup of tea, or some other beverage, or even a stroll around a local park or really where ever your comfort level may be in meeting a stranger.
A much more genuine way, I feel, to discover a possible connection.
Gotta go play now.
What I’m doing with my life
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Doing my best to be in the moment, to play and enjoy life every day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Jack of all trades, or at least some, master of none.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My gentle nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything by Terry Pratchett, Christopher Moore, Neil Gaiman or just about anything else I can get my hands on. Always a few going.
Movies: Eclectic but no gore.
Music: Trip Hop, Down Tempo, 80's with a British slant.
Food: Full on Multi Cultural Veggie
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I see us humans as having profound abilities to adapt, so I believe there is nothing I could do with out but I would really miss not being out in nature, my Kayak(s), Bike, Chef Knives, Library of Books/Music and of course, although I don't like to think of them as things, my friends and family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Going with the flow and how to facilitate that process.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Generally taking it easy in some fashion or another after a gratifying but somewhat energy depleting work week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Will be admitted privately.
You should message me if
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The whim takes you.