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38 Dublin, Ireland Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Yesterday – 2:30pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly), Irish (Poorly)

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What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I’ve been trying to figure that out since I was able to think. These days, I write. I’m working on a novel, I’ve written some songs, I blog whenever something worth saying comes to me. And I'm working on how to make the words make me a living.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding distractions. But I’m getting better at putting them to productive use. I’m a good listener. I’ve been told I give good hugs. I can play guitar fairly well, though I’m not patient enough to learn how to play perfectly. Same goes for cooking. But I’m brilliant at picking out a misplaced apostrophe. And writing lengthy answers on profiles, it seems...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is for them to say and you to notice. I’ve never asked.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
BOOKS: I've a bad habit of buying far more books than I can read. Love Camus and Steinbeck and Richard Brautigan. Been reading Irish lately - John McGahern, Anne Enright, Colm Tóibín, as well as Joyce, Behan & Kavanagh; like to mix fiction with good travel writing & journalism too.

MOVIES: I dig the Coens & the Andersons, but then so does everyone, so that doesn't tell you much. Magnolia's a good touchstone. Saw Boyhood recently & loved it. Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter... and Spring recently floored me. Oh, and Jaws is about as good a film as has ever been made.

SHOWS: I don’t watch much TV, but I got sucked into Mad Men, The Killing, The Wire, Arrested Development & Fargo. Northern Exposure is still my favourite, though. And I never get sick of QI.

MUSIC should have heart and soul, not to mention blood, sweat and tears. And if there’s any room left, a little bit of brains. I like acoustic stuff like Joe Pug, Townes van Zandt, Gillian Welch & Bonnie Prince Billy & folky Bruce.) Don’t listen to as much rock as I used to, though I'll never say no to Pearl Jam, Pixies, Sleater-Kinney, X, Ramones or Tom Waits (whatever box you want to try and put him in). When I'm writing or reading, I need mellow music without words - Chopin, Gorecki, Einaudi, Django Reinhardt and Anouar Brahem.

FOOD: I’m veggie, but aside from a serious aversion to mushrooms, I’m not that picky. I like spicy – Indian, Italian, Mexican. I make a mean chilli, do a fine goat’s cheese salad and am a little too fond of sweet potato. And I don't mind a Spanish red wine or a good craft ale to wash it down.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I’ve gotten quite good at learning to live with little. So long as I have my guitar, my pen and notebook, health, love and affection, and easy access to the natural world, then I’m good.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whatever comes to mind. What I’ve done or what to do next. Ethics, aesthetics and how to live well. I get overwhelmed by art & by nature. There is nothing like standing on the edge of the ocean or the top of a mountain and thinking about how small you are.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
open to suggestion. Pub, gig, movie, quiet night in? Depends on what's on, who's around, how I feel, what the weather's doing. So, nothing particularly typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
wouldn't be private if I admitted it here.

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