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31 • Richmond, CA • Cis Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–36
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 17
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Open relationship
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
I grew up in the North Bay and I lived in Philly for a couple years, but I have recently returned. Chorus of angels descending from the sky, etc.
I turn the nerd up to 11. I can spell sesquipedalian.
I have a degree in Audio Engineering and I work in the tech industry. My job has nothing to do with my degree... I used to have an electropop band with my sister, who's a trans woman. She once put me in drag for halloween; I make an incredible bearded lady.
I also like cute things, so send me pictures of your babies and puppies and we shall squee together. Every now and again I indulge myself a baseball game, though that's more about the warm nostalgia and memories of eating garlic fries with my Dad than the brotastic broness of broing to sports games with the bros.
Lastly, I'm pretty busy these days, but I have pockets of free time here and there, and am looking for someone to spend those pockets with. Preferably moving in some manner - walks, hikes, runs, bicycling, yoga, whatever - and preferably with someone with whom I have the possibility for some sort of physical attraction. Because touching people is fun, and so is being touched.
Also great at picking things up and then putting them down, reaching stuff on high shelves, snuggling, and knowing way too much about silly science fiction books/movies/video games.
I sing - I once had a scholarship to sing opera in college - and I play saxophone.
Movies: Let The Right One In, Zombieland, Waynesworld, Back to the Future, Ghostbusters, The Big Lebowski, American Beauty, The Matrix, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Shrek, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, The 40-Year-Old Virgin, Little Miss Sunshine, Star Wars, The Town, Iron Man, Shrek, The Godfather, The Dark Knight, The Princess Bride, Tron, Boondock Saints, Fight Club, Star Trek, Alien, Serenity, Bill & Ted's Excellent Adventure, LA Story, Attack the Gas Station, Lost in Translation
Music: Muse, Radiohead, Hockey, Splashdown (NO ONE HAS HEARD OF THEM, BUT GOOGLE THEM RIGHT NOW BECAUSE MELISSA KAPLAN IS THE BEST), CunninLynguists, Sonnymoon, Empire of the Sun, Massive Attack, Metallica, The Beatles, Save Ferris, Frank Sinatra, Broken Bells, Tool, A Perfect Circle, Beck, Lily Allen, The Killers, Dredg, The Who, Alabama Shakes, Depeche Mode, David Bowie, Modest Mouse, Gorillaz, Nine Inch Nails, Lily Allen, Alice in Chains, The Rolling Stones, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Sublime, Johnny Cash, Charles Mingus, Infected Mushroom, John Coltrane, Thelonious Monk, Ray Charles, Queen, Girl Talk, Pink Floyd, No Doubt, The Doors, Mr. Bungle, AC/DC, Snoop Dogg, Faith No More, System of a Down, Bob Marley, Dr Dre, Michael Jackson, Sigur Rós, BT, Stevie Wonder, Jeff Buckley, Rock Sugar, Universal Hall Pass, Hybrid, a gazillion more. I'll listen to anything good, regardless of genre.
TV Shows: Dexter, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, South Park, Star Trek: The Next Generation, Battlestar Galactica, Dr. Who, Torchwood, The Walking Dead, Planet Earth, Breaking Bad, Top Gear, The Boondocks, MythBusters, It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia, Futurama, The Simpsons, Arrested Development, Fringe, Robot Chicken, Family Guy, The Office, Star Trek, Dollhouse, The Daily Show, X-Files, Buffy: The Vampire Slayer, Angel, Firefly, Will & Grace, Psych, Game of Thrones
Food: I looove Thai and Mexican. Also sushi. Once upon a childhood I was a picky eater, but my palette really opened up once I hit my 20's. Lately I've been slowly discovering the awesomeness of weird foods. Still have a thing about mushrooms, though I know it's completely psychological. Can't eat them if I know I'm eating them.
I'm a feminist.
I love wine.
You think that if my car threw a rod in the desert and we had to fix it with parts stolen from a nearby junkyard guarded by rabid dogs and shotgun-packing gypsies that this would be a fantastic bonding experience.
You're down with the poly thing. You don't have to currently be seeing multiple people. Or ever really plan on it. But you have to be cool with me seeing more than just you.
You can answer this:
A princess is as old as a prince will be when the princess is twice as old as the prince was when the princess's age was half the sum of their present ages. How old are the prince and princess? (given that the princess is a teenager, and assuming only whole number ages.)
But really, you need to be OK with probably being just friends for the foreseeable future, because I have so little time.
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