I am sober. My drinking and partying days are over. I still go to the bar to watch a game, still hang out with people who drink, but I am done with that part of my life. If you like to drink that's fine, it doesn't bother me a bit. If you like to get wasted every weekend we probably won't hang out much.
I love my job although dealing with people's finances and the baggage that goes along with that can be difficult. I once tackled a guy off his bike because he snatched someone's phone. I don't panic in a crisis. I love to cook for other people, when it's just me I am most likely to just go grab a burrito.