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32 F Oakland, CA

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Last Online
Today – 6:00am
Pacific Islander
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm not much of a party girl anymore, but I still enjoy the occasional night out (my friends make fun of me for asking them if they want to go dancing, as opposed to just going out)... These days, I prefer a nice late dinner rather than loud music at a crowded bar.

I (successfully) quit smoking over a year ago and, no, I did not jump on the Vape bandwagon. Along this path, I've started getting active and taking care of myself again. While the transition back to a healthier self hasn't been an easy one, it's becoming something I can't live without. It'd be nice to meet someone who is striving for the same (or encourages me to do so). With that being said, it doesn't mean I can't enjoy my mom's cooking (and other yummy yummy fried goodness).

I want to see the world (who doesn't?). I've travelled some, but have barely scratched the surface on places I'd love to visit.

Basically, I'd like to meet someone that I can share all the good and bad with. That's what it's all about, isn't it?

Everything is better with laughter!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in healthcare (specifically, long term care-mainly working with the elderly). And yes, I really do love old people.

I'm also trying something outside of my day job that I hope will eventually become a full-time thing.... Regardless if it works or not, I absolutely love it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at making up my own words that only a select few of my friends can understand. I'm also good at taking names with two or more syllables and shortening them to one then adding an "S" at the end.

Also, does over-ordering or cooking too much count? I think this might be the result of my upbringing. We were always afraid there wasn't going to be enough food for everyone or, God forbid,
someone might still be hungry. I have yet to learn how to cook for one...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My perpetual tan? (True story: a nurse at work came up to me, rubbed my arm, then asked me if my skin was real)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
You know when someone asks you, "What's your favorite this and that? What do you do for fun?" I usually draw a blank, which is crazy because I'm usually excited about something or anything.... I have lots of favorite things to chat about. Just don't ask me directly :)

Food: As much as I love food and trying different cuisines, my mom's cooking will always be #1.

(I don't like the term "Foodie." It implies that I take food seriously, which I don't. If you're fortunate enough to be in a position to enjoy it, food experiences should always be fun and lighthearted.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order (I'm not going to include water, air, family and friends-those are givens):

1) Lip balm
2) Chai Tea (with milk and sugar-not a chai tea latte)
3) Occasional slow mornings (that sometimes turn into lazy days)
4) Tessa, my English Bullie...
5) Good food and wine
6) A full night of sleep

Not too long ago, an iPhone would have made it on this list. After losing it on day 1 of a month long trip in Asia a little while back, I discovered I could survive without one. Gasp!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Opening a food truck. And having to do my laundry.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Whether at home or out and about, it usually involves a really good meal and a nice glass (or two) of wine...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've decided to give on-line dating a try. Please don't tell anyone. It's a very big secret.

Also, I snore. And yes, it's embarrassing. But I can't help it.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 31–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You should message me if you're just super awesome. Also, message me if you like my profile, because I won't know. But, if you have a shirtless picture (with the exception of those on the beach or on vacation) of yourself taken in front of a bathroom or bedroom mirror, we probably won't get along.

Recently single/divorced need not apply... I just think it takes time to heal... And jumping back into the dating scene isn't the best way to handle that.

By the way, you have to like dogs. Tessa will pretty much like you instantly...