Lets keep it simple, lets keep it straight,.. lets not complicate things too early or create doubt & hate. Lets first be friends & our souls will mend,.. we can still be free, but with you & me, we shall ascend.
...just a little rhyme for your time, heh.
So my goal is to simply find someone that makes me feel like I did not have to settle to be with them & that they would feel like they did not have to settle to be with me. Not so simple a thing, im sure you will agree, otherwise, why would you be reading my profile now right?!
So lets not put any pressure on ourselves. Lets start out being pure & simple, getting to know each other; going out on dates, having fun, learning about all those little things that make us even more curious about one another... did I mention lets have fun?
My perfect match is going to be very attractive looking in my eyes,... of course I have high standards so she is going to be attractive in the eyes of many wandering by as well. Not just in looks, but her quirky sense of humor, her sharp wit, her keen intellect, & her obvious wisdom. Oh yeah, & her big boobies, hah! Just kidding... im not like those other guys & their affection for boobies... unlike them I am not particular about the size... Im just happy you got a pair!
Seriously though, I am looking for someone longterm & by longterm I mean lifelong; maybe longer if our souls sync. So please, if you just like to have fun I am cool with that but be upfront about it so that I can continue to give serious consideration to those who are actually interested in me for longer than that one night stand, which by the way, you will never get with me so please drop that notion immediately. When I say we should have fun, I mean all that non-sexual fun that many people take for granted simply cause its not ending between the sheets. So be serious about the fun, &/or be serious about friendship, &/or be serious about a longterm relationship. I give what I get & generally more with the exception being those "One-nighters" that I will completely ignore. Oh crap did I rhyme again? It was completely unintentional this time, seriously.
Ok, some other things I need you to be without exception: Drug Free please... sorry I have a son & even though he does not live with me fulltime I do take my "Dad" title seriously enough that I have no care or desire to do drugs or mix & mingle with anyone who does. So by all means, enjoy your narcotics but please do not take the time to get to know me in any way, shape, or fashion while you have those substances in your life & I thank you in advance for complying to my wishes so,... thanks! : )
Aside from not being a habitual user of illegal substances, I would also ask that you please, please, very much please know who you are & know what you want in life. This will make things so much easier on both of us. Im sure neither of us wants to setup any kind of friendship or intimate relationship under the premise that you "thought" you wanted a manogamous relationship only to decide 6 months later that you really just want to be a free butterfly fluttering about numerous relationships never landing on one for very long. Life can be so painless and simple with a little honesty about who you are, what you want, & sharing that with those you connect with.
So I hope I did not come off too harsh and if I did, then we already have a disconnect now dont we : ) hint, hint, move along please and nothing to see here. Thanks in advance for reading all this & I wish you well in life should u merely be passing through.