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DUSM542b

24 M Costa Mesa, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:47pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Hospitality
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am going to give you something that is rare on this site: a brutally honest self-bio. I am a flawed man. I am stubborn, opinionated, logical, intellectually self-aware, and introverted. I value and frequently use witty banter, just for fun. I am very blunt and to the point, but I know when it's time to shut my mouth. I'm a planner who constantly looks months or even years ahead, yet I can take Gods curveballs as they come and rearrange at the drop of a hat. I'm a natural leader but at times I can be weak. Sometimes I won't do or say what you would expect and I will definitely not understand you from time to time. However, if you can accept all my flaws, and if you take the time to look, you'll find a heart within me second to none. You will find that guy you've been wanting who will open your door, pull out your chair, or give you the last bite of dessert. I may be picky with the people I choose to let in, but when I do my heart is all theirs. I will fight to love and protect them from the harsh reality of our broken world. I'm passionate, thoughtful, loving, and sincere. I adore kids and I'm always the one who ends up being their personal jungle gym/punching bag/cannon ball launcher. I'm a God fearing man who will treat you as my bestfriend; standing next to me, not behind me or beneath me, as God intended when he made women from man's rib.

I've got a country heart stuck in a yuppie world. That means I work earnestly hard, love my woman with all my heart, keep my relationship with God at the forefront of everything I do, and I only show my rough/toughness as a last resort. Just as well, I'm a throwback to an older generation. I try to live like both of my grandfathers have: my words are something to stand by, my heart is geared towards helping others before myself, you ALWAYS help the little guy, and i don't take shortcuts in life.

I'm a simple man, as God intended. All I need is a good woman, good friends, and a loving family. But, in the end, the only thing that matters is what my life means for Gods plan for this world. I'm just hoping that God leads me to a woman I can share and build a life with; a woman I can walk hand in hand through life's ups and downs with; a woman I can truly call my best friend.
What I’m doing with my life
I am well educated with a Masters and Bachelors degree. I hope to continue on in academia throughout my career and remainder of my life. Knowledge is key to understanding life, and there is ALWAYS something new to learn. However, right now I'm just trying to get my career going so I can start to build a life for my future family.

When I'm not trying to figure out where I'm headed, I'm doing stuff outdoors. Fishing, shooting, golfing, coaching, hiking, camping, etc! I also love to cook and ride my motorcycle up and down the coast!
I’m really good at
Tavern Puzzles!
Listening and problem solving.
Cooking you a meal that you'll want everyday!
I also learn new things very quickly and have a superb memory! I am also a good teacher/coach, I can explain things to people in a way that it relates to them
Giving perfect Christmas gifts for people!
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes. Or my beard if it's grown out.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too many to list so I will list the main favorites of each: bible, non-fiction crime books, classical philosophy books, romance and comedy movies, Pitch Perfect (YES, I said pitch perfect!), Sons of Anarchy/Modern Family, COUNTRY TILL I DIE/Singer Songwriter, and Mexican/Steakhouse/BBQ food.
The six things I could never do without
Our God, a bestfriend, my freedom, my ambition, Mexican food, and....I dunno, cowboy boots, sure, cowboy boots
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What our God is trying to teach me today...
On a typical Friday night I am
Either recovering from the work day with friends, spending time with my brother, or just reading or watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My brother, sister, and I have inherited a little thing called the Socratic method from my father. Basically, we will debate/argue/discuss any topic with or without known facts just for the sake of having a discussion where hopefully by the end we will have all learned something new....yes, it will get annoying. Unless you have the energy to constantly jump right in! It's a lot of theoretics and presumptions, so you must have thick skin if you jump in.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are tired of the kinds of guys you find at clubs or bars who could tell you the names of different drinks or how much they bench, but don't know how to relate biblical or academic concepts to your life. You know what my last two pictures are of. You know what I mean by Ravens fan and GKG! And you should be able to find and understand 1 John 4:8.

You should put more into a message than "Hey" or more than 1 line. I'm putting effort into the messages I write. Others can do the same. Witty or creative first lines will grab my attention quicker! :)