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23 Upper Darby, PA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:30pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
English, French (Okay), Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm a stocky-built man who loves to sew and gather materials for costumes at comic book/anime conventions. Although I grew up in a conservative home, I've become a lot more receptive to social justice as an adult. In short, I'm the kind of person who messes with society's expectations for a good cause. People call me Benny, so you can do the same thing.

Note: I'm working on getting a decent profile picture.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I graduated with a Bachelor of Arts in International Relations last year; I'm applying for law school this year. In the meantime, I volunteer/do part-time work at local churches, usually for anything that needs a musician.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- sight-reading for musical pieces, especially if I have to sing for them. It's a valuable skill for the volunteer work/part-time jobs I mentioned above.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Half the Sky, What is the What, Pride and Prejudice, Beloved, A Doll's House

Movies: A Few Good Men, Ghostbusters, Back to the Future

Shows: Law and Order, Parks and Recreation, Legend of Korra
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1.) One cup of coffee in the morning

2.) Two pens, since I tend to lose one of then when writing down reminders for random tasks or schedule changes

3.) Three SEPTA tokens, since I prefer using public transportation over driving to places

...That's technically six things already, so I'll stop there.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- how I can try to find some spare time to play all the video games that my friends recommended to me.

- how I can improve my cosplay or how I can improve my workout routine (these two are related, I swear).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having dinner with one of my close friends at a nice restaurant in (or close to) Center City, drinking a Lionshead while playing cornhole with my fraternity brothers, or marathoning a new anime show with my old friends from my college's anime club.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You're up for a fierce round of competitive video games (sober or otherwise),

- You'd like to talk about wildly popular/oddly obscure anime or video games,

- You want to discuss the unfair standards forced on us by society itself, or,

- You need advice on how to get over your stage fright. Seriously.