Disclaimer: parts of this profile are as old as okcupid. While I
like to write I don't like to write about myself...feel free to ask
anything. If I'm active here it means I'm at place in life where I
want to meet new people.
Life is yet again in transition and I find myself moving forward
with change. It has been some time since I have been active here
and my profile is a work in progress once again. While most things
about me haven't changed I am in a new place in life.
I am an INFP. Yes I can be a bit of an introvert and love to dream
but also think of myself as pretty creative. I also love to go on
new journeys and adventures.
What I’m doing with my life
I love living life to it's fullest. I know that sounds pretty
cookie cutter and typical for people to say...when I say I enjoy
living life I mean I rarely have many regrets nor do I beat myself
up over dumb things I've done. You learn from all your experiences
in life both good and bad. Life is about making the most of of
everyday. So when the time comes to look back and reflect upon your
lives achievements and honestly say t yourself that you truly did
make the most out of everyday you had.
This is something that I always try and keep to the front of my
mind and I know I struggle with it but i haven't given up. I'd have
to say I don't use my days effeciently as I would like. Did I
mention that I am a perfectionist who tends to procrastinate at
I've recently discovered that I love gardening. While I live in the
city. I maximize my balcony outdoor space with a small container
garden every year. I love trying a few new things each year such as
carrots and shishito peppers this year.
I’m really good at
Nerding out over music, books, the arts, cooking an home cooked
meal for a group of friends etc.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm disabled...I don't stand out in a crowd but I'm usually
the most noticeable. ;) Also my smile and laugh I've been told is
what people notice about me when I'm out socializing with friends
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A. Almost any book by Jack Kerouac, One flew Over the Cocoos Nest, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, A Brave New World, books by Chuck Palahniuk, 1984,100 Years of Solitude by Gabriel Garcia Marquez, books by Douglas Coupland. Orson Scott Cards Ender series, I was never really into Sci-Fi but his books have had me hooked since I read Ender's Game. Stephen King since I was a kid. Recent have gotten into reading memoirs.
B.l like all kinds of music with modern country music probably being the main exception. Techno, house, electro, jazz sounds being at the top of my list of favorites.
C. Spicy food is great, Thai and Indian cuisine...Sushi, stir fry cooked at home with friends. I love trying new things...
The six things I could never do without
1. Books 2. Music 3. Good coffee 4. Friends and Family 5. Nature 6.
Good food and wine.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about all sorts of things. Late I've
been thinking about what the new direction for my life is going to
be... I know I need to take more time to take care of myself but
there is so much more I want to do yet in life.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'd have to say I don't have a typical Friday, sometimes peace and quiet to reflect on the week, out for dinner with friends, or maybe out to a show... I never know as my interests are so eclectic.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a terrible addiction to Haribo gummy bears
You should message me if
...eccentrics, lovers of life, down to earth real people. Anyone
who is interested in having a good conversation about almost
anything.... Feel free to ask me anything if you want to know about
I love creative and open people, people who are comfortable around
themselves and others despite being a bit quirky.