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22 Wichita, KS Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–23
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 12:18pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Working on two-year college
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Hi, I'm Derek!

Overall I like to think I'm one of those "nice guys". I open doors, push in chairs, pay for dinner, all the things that a gentleman would do. I don't like to hold grudges against people and I'm usually pretty quick to get over things. I typically have a good energy and I love life and being alive. I put family above all else; I have two brothers (I'm a middle child) and I have a great mother and father who I know that I can always turn to.

I love to read and to write and use big words. I also love to workout and to go running! If there was money enough I would start taking mauy thai classes at the gym I go to, but unfortunately I'm broke as a joke! So if you need money to make you happy you're looking at the wrong guy :p I have a witty sense of humor and have a tendancy to make myself laugh. Honestly, I consider myself to be really funny, I just need to get more people to think that too (;

If there are any other last minute quirks to throw out there it's that I truly don't worry too much. I've lived enough of life to know that God's there for me and I don't need to sweat the small stuff. I don't drink very much--just a beer or a glass of wine--I don't smoke, I don't party. If you do that, then I don't mind, but please don't try to drag me into it. I do like to meet people, so feel free to message me!

Anything else you want to know just ask :D
What I’m doing with my life
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Right now I'm going to school for nursing and hope to be a traveling nurse someday! I work part time at FedEx as a package handler and I love it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at writing, and running and being a good student. Also, I'm really good at being a nice guy. I'm a good listener, supportive and nonjudgemental. Though that does not make me a door mat, so leave your shoes at home. I'm a halfway decent cook and given time and motivation I can teach myself nearly anything. I'm also really good at using smiley faces (: So expect those a lot.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I would have to say either my smile or eyes (I know, such an original answer!). My smile is pretty goofy, but my eyes (so I am told) are intense and a dark hazel color. Also, although this is weird compliment to receive as I often I do, I am constantly told that I smell nice. So, if for nothing else, I smell good. (:
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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That's a lot of things to put into one box!
Books: The Book Thief, The Time Travelers Wife, Harry Potter (omg so great!), Youth, Lord Jim, Catch Me if You Can, Their Eyes Were Watching God, The Stand, Joyas Voyadoas (short essay--but amazing!), Sherlock Holmes (So far my favorite is A Scandal in Bohemia), To Kill a Mockingbird, Pride and prejudice, Perks of Being a Wallflower, Hunger Games--the list goes on.
Movies: (500) Days of Summer <--Best. Movie. Ever!, Good Will Hunting, Dodge Ball, Mystery Men, Anchorman, Shrek 2, Batman movies (who doesn't love those?), I Am Legend, Paranormal Activity, O' Brother Where Art Thou?, Scott Pilgram Vs. The World, Shutter Island, Talledega Nights!--Again, it's a long list.
Shows: I really don't watch a lot of TV, but I do like House, M.D., Spongebob (don't lie--you love this show), and Psych. I also just started watching the Big Bang Theory recently and love it!!
Music: I won't even bother to list. Mostly I like Rock and Alternative style music. But I wont deny artist like Ne-Yo, Eminem, Jack Johnson, Ben Harper, Blake Shelton, Uche, and Darius Rucker. Also, I've been getting a lot into blues recently.
Food: I'm not picky (: You make it, chances are, I'd eat it! I don't eat fast food as much as I used to, but I still would go for Arby's any day of the week (I'm thinkin'). I also like Thai food, it's spicy and delicious! Same goes with mexican food (I especially enjoy Chipotle!). I don't feel like I can trust seafood unless I make it myself (although, fried catfish can hardly ever disappoint). I like soups and what nots--like French onion soup and cream of asparugus. But, like most American men, I also enjoy a nice steak or BBQ dinner with cornbread and veggies (: Oh and butterscotch! I'd eat my arm if it was coated in butterscotch : D I also just discovered hummus--OMG HOW DID I EVER LIVE WITHOUT?!?! O.o
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
Sleeping in the car--I'm a habitual car sleeper!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
God, where I want to go in life, what I'm going to make for dinner, how my family and/or friends are doing, school--it changes pretty often. Ask me and I'll tell you (:
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working! I work all day on Fridays :(
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It's not my favorite thing to admit, but I've struggled with depression nearly my entire teenage/adult life. It's hereditary and I have/am currently receiving help for it.
Also, once I get comfortable around someone, like really really comfortable, I sing in the car. A lot. I mean a lot as in, to every song I know the lyrics to and most of the songs I don't know the lyrics to. Be prepared.
You should message me if
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If you think we would be a good fit (: