45 San Diego, CA
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My self-summary
Love the outdoors, travel, biking, skateboarding, surfing. Going to Big Bear,the beach, mountains, movies.

Road trips, Vegas, SF, Hawaii....I enjoy all music: alternative ,80s,rock, etc.. Huge into my family, love BBQs, a good beer, margaritas, great wine. Love Disneyland too!

If you have a sarcastic , smarta$$ sense of humor, it's a bonus!

I have 3 Amazing daughters and I have 2 of them every other weekend and my oldest is with me fulltime
Please be emotionally and physically available, over your ex(s), no games, 100% divorced.

I feel getting together for a short "meetup" ( likes drinks, coffee, HH), is the best check of compatibility. If there's a mutual "like" then we can plan something like dinner, etc.

Please be in San Diego area
What I’m doing with my life
Living it....Im always on the lookout for ways to improve my life.
I’m really good at
Being a good male role model to my girls, Fixing and building things, surfing, skateboarding, organization.
The first things people usually notice about me
eyes, smile, making people feel at ease, i'll make you laugh.
That Im usually wearing flip flops
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
91x, 94.9, Alternative, rock,80's music, Will Ferrell, Adam Sandler, Foodie: sushi, Mexican, Italian, BBQ, Starbucks, TV=2 Broke Girls, Modern Family, Orange is the New Black, Californication, Walking Dead, Diners-Drive Ins and Dives, Tosh. 0, The Leauge, Movies:Shawshank Redemption, Chasing Mavericks, anything Pixar, Nightmare Before Christmas, anything from the 80s, Breakfast Club, Step Brothers, Christmas Vacation, Hangover series.
The six things I could never do without
My kiddos
My dog
Apple products
The ocean
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to make my kids lives better, random thoughts like" will I meet "the ONE" here?awesome waves. Sleeping,
A vacation in Fiji...
Why so many women on this site over 40 still want to have kids??
On a typical Friday night I am
With my kiddos being a taxi or ATM, to them ;) out with friends at happy hour, movies, or watching DVRed shows from the prior week winding down
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Its seems like most women on these sites are world travlers ..I've only been out of the country 3x since I've been busy raising my kids.. I figure all those places aren't going anywhere (Europe, etc.) and the one im with will hopefully want to travel to them in the future..
You should message me if
If anything Ive said catches your eye, and you're tired of dating jacka**es..if your usually casual, dont wear tons of make up, and have a rad twisted sense of humor!
You could handle being around my kids (if it gets to that point).
I dont want anymore kids, but I'd glady accept anyone elses kid(s).

Im not perfect, and not looking for perfect - just perfect for me!
Would really like to meet just one normal or semi normal girl!
At 43, I never thought it'd be this difficult