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DaddyWarlock

50 / M / straight / Available

Temperance, Michigan

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am peripatetic, polyamorous, and pedantic.

My Self-Summary

I am a simple man of simple tastes.

While I do not practice Radical Honesty, I try to be honest in my relationships. As I've told almost every woman I've been involved with, I can handle anything but lies.

I am no longer the hormone-driven adolescent. I enjoy sex, in many ways, shapes, and forms, but it is not the driving force in my life. Nevertheless, I can say with all requisite humility I'm good at giving a woman pleasure.

What I’m doing with my life

I've spent the last several years as a full-time house-husband, keeping things going for my wife and daughter on the home front.

My New Year's resolution is to become more social; I've always been something of a homebody, and I don't think it's really been good for me. (Please note I'm steadfastly avoiding terms like "quiet" and "loner" and "keeps to himself". Somehow they've kind of become, umm, pejorative.)

In terms of hobbies and pastimes, I enjoy the SCA, other historical recreation, sewing, woodworking, and writing fiction. I'm currently researching an alternate history novel concerning the assassination of Joseph Stalin.

I’m really good at

Wood-working, especially with hand tools; sewing; history; remembering trivia; geeky stuff; political awareness;-- the list goes on.

Editors

The first things people usually notice about me

are probably my hair and beard. My hair is currently about as long as it's ever been, down to the bottom of my shoulder blades. Eventually it'll be donated to Locks of Love (they sell the grey to wigmakers to cover their overhead expenses).*

* No, that isn't an intentional pun.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Of books there are entirely too many to list here. Favorite authors include Robert Heinlein, Isaac Asimov, Arthur C. Clarke, Terry Pratchett, Spider Robinson, and Harry Turtledove. I've just recently finished Neal Stephenson's "Baroque Cycle" and then of course I had to re-read "Cryptonomicon".

Movies are similar; I like just about anything except Westerns, but even there there are exceptions; "Silverado" was a great piece of filmmaking. More likely choices would be historical dramas, science fiction epics (wish they'd make some good ones), romantic comedies, and suchlike.

Music preferences vary with activity. When I'm working at the computer, I like classical. Driving; classic rock. Most any old time; filk.

I love Italian food, Chinese is great, fake Mexican (e.g. ChiChi's) is okay.

The six things I could never do without

Aside from the absolute necessities (air, food, water) I need a goal, a good book, time to devote to each, a good cup of chai, the people I love, and bodies of water. (Great for contemplation.)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How we're gonna fix the mistakes of the Bush years. I'm very interested in politics, and my worst fears of 2000 weren't bad enough.

I also think about different social structures. I support gay marriage, and I also support plural marriage. Why shouldn't three people be allowed to marry? Or four? Or any other number?

On a typical Friday night I am

Spending time with my wife and/or daughter, or discovering all sorts of new and fascinating things online.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

has already been mentioned: I am polyamorous. I practice responsible non-monogamy. If you don't know what that is, hie thee to Wikipedia and learn something new.

You should message me if

Any of this sounds interesting.