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Tall, masculine, sweet, sensitive, sober, usually empathetic and
intelligent. I have lived in New York City longer than I've lived
out of it. In fact I was born here opposite the Cloisters (the
hospital is no longer there), I wonder if that's why I like art
history. Not as well traveled as I would like. Anyone want an
adventure? A Romance? I'm also very adventurous romantic sort of
OK, I'm a bit out of sync with the rest of the world. I prefer
Yahoo! to Google and Macs to PCs, landlines to cell phones (don't
own one) and movie theaters to streaming video. In these
conservative times I'm a liberal. Must say I also like intelligent
people. I find nerdy very sexy.
We all have luggage but after years of therapy and Al-Anon, mine is
no larger than a wallet (I think). I'll leave the rest up to you
after we meet.
I recognize that as we age, esp. in the gay world, we have fewer
and fewer chances for a LTR. Therefore I'm hoping to find my
soulmate here. If not a good friend would work and if that doesn't
work . . . .
I've realized what I really want. Someone educated, intelligent,
with good self-esteem who can love unconditionally (or at least try
After all that is what you get in me!
Although I am more interested in intimacy than sex, I am very
intelligent and can make love intelligently and make you feel good.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a librarian at a large university so you can call me professor.
Yes I am occasionally absent-minded but if I'm in a relationship I
won't forget you! if you wish, or sweetie, or whatever pet name you
want, including Daddy. I must warn you. I am an Otter, more than a
As a librarian Im love helping my students navigate the
At the moment I'm looking for my other half (I believe he's out
there looking for me as well.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like reading, strolling, museums, taking walks under a romantic
sky, talking, dreaming (about us & our future), forgetting the
bad and remembering the good. I don't hold grudges.
The first things people usually notice about me
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is my height, then my smile, then my fur. Someone told me I'm
handsome and cultured so I choose to believe them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love the works of Christopher Rice and I've read all of them, but
I've never read his mom. I like gay mysteries and classic novels. I
love old movies, including silent films. As a good gay boy, for
music I like soundtracks, cast albums and early rock and roll. I
like opera music especially when it is live. I eat anything except
whipped raw cream (I'm allergic) but I can eat cheese, ice cream,
sour cream, yogurt and whole milk. Nu, go figure!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. The beauty of a clear crisp autumn day;
2. books made out of paper;
3. good food (any kind);
5. romance and sex;
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Almost always at synagogue. (you wouldn't have to come but you'd be
welcome to if you wanted to come with me). I really enjoy the music
there & the neighborhood (the UWS). I'm a good Reform Jewish
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is that i'm not as smart as I think I am.
You should message me if
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