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Daddybearnyc

58 M Kew Gardens, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 19–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Tall, masculine, sweet, sensitive, sober, usually empathetic and intelligent. I have lived in New York City longer than I've lived out of it. In fact I was born here opposite the Cloisters (the hospital is no longer there), I wonder if that's why I like art history. Not as well traveled as I would like. Anyone want an adventure? A Romance? I'm also very adventurous romantic sort of guy.

OK, I'm a bit out of sync with the rest of the world. I prefer Yahoo! to Google and Macs to PCs, landlines to cell phones (don't own one) and movie theaters to streaming video. In these conservative times I'm a liberal. Must say I also like intelligent people. I find nerdy very sexy.

We all have luggage but after years of therapy and Al-Anon, mine is no larger than a wallet (I think). I'll leave the rest up to you after we meet.

I recognize that as we age, esp. in the gay world, we have fewer and fewer chances for a LTR. Therefore I'm hoping to find my soulmate here. If not a good friend would work and if that doesn't work . . . .

I've realized what I really want. Someone educated, intelligent, with good self-esteem who can love unconditionally (or at least try to).

After all that is what you get in me!

But I must warn you. Last year I was diagnosed with Prostrate Cancer & while I am now in remission the treatments have left me with a reduced sex drive. I can't get an erection and while I do get orgasm I can't ejaculate. HOWEVER, I am very intelligent and can make love and make you feel good.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a librarian at a large university so you can call me professor. Yes I am occasionally absent-minded but if I'm in a relationship I won't forget you! if you wish, or sweetie, or whatever pet name you want, including Daddy. I must warn you. I am an Otter, more than a bear.

As a librarian Im love helping my students navigate the world.

At the moment I'm looking for my other half (I believe he's out there looking for me as well.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like reading, strolling, museums, taking walks under a romantic sky, talking, dreaming (about us & our future), forgetting the bad and remembering the good. I don't hold grudges.
The first things people usually notice about me
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is my height, then my smile, then my fur. Someone told me I'm handsome and cultured so I choose to believe them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love the works of Christopher Rice and I've read all of them, but I've never read his mom. I like gay mysteries and classic novels. I love old movies, including silent films. As a good gay boy, for music I like soundtracks, cast albums and early rock and roll. I like opera music especially when it is live. I eat anything except whipped raw cream (I'm allergic) but I can eat cheese, ice cream, sour cream, yogurt and whole milk. Nu, go figure!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. The beauty of a clear crisp autumn day;
2. books made out of paper;
3. good food (any kind);
4. adventures;
5. romance and sex;
6. YOU!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The wonder of it all!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Almost always at synagogue. (you wouldn't have to come but you'd be welcome to if you wanted to come with me). I really enjoy the music there & the neighborhood (the UWS). I'm a good Reform Jewish boy/man!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is that i'm not as smart as I think I am.
You should message me if
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Any or all of this interests you or if you'd like to find out more!