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37 Fairfax, VA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:51am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This is where I spend time explaining how amazing I am and how you couldn't possibly do better...balderdash, I say! I'd go so far as to say I'm a good guy, nice, sweet, intelligent, sincere, not bad looking...overall, I'm just a regular guy...laid back, peace loving...looking for new experiences, both local and abroad, to accentuate my quest for more. My hope is to meet that special someone with whom I can have amazing experiences with, and together we can build a significant relationship, one of legitimate joy, respect, appreciation, intimacy and laughter.

Seems fair to me...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm out looking for fun times and great experiences...but, I mostly have a job and a quiet life so, you know, there's that...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being kind of cool...
Being a little nerdy...
Being pleasantly surprising...
Being surprisingly pleasant...
Bringing balance to the Force...I'm very dedicated to this....
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile
My chivalry (apparently men have pulled back on this for some reason)
My laugh (hearty!)
My sincerity and overall genuineness (I'm hard to read at times, but my heart is true...)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love to read, mostly action/adventure, thrillers, mysteries, sci-fi/fantasy - the same goes for my movies, really...

Sometimes sports...long story...

Musicals (thanks to my sister...)

Italian, Indian, Spanish, Caribbean, ethnic foods

Live music...R&B, Classical, Operas, Pop (some....), Country...

Museums, the Planetarium, Zoos...

Sitcoms and Dramedies (Castle, Psych, Burn Notice, New Girl, Modern Family, White Collar, The Middle, others...)

Animal Planet, Discovery/Science Channel, etc...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Books (plural...)
- Fun/Laughter (it's kind of addictive...)
- Hope
- Friendship/Kinship (even when your alone, you shouldn't feel alone)
- Brushing my teeth (obviously...)
- Music/Song
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything...the meaning of life
Why love finds some sooner than others (or not at all...)
Whether the Adjustment Bureau could be real...
How to be the best possible me without sacrificing what I love about myself (harder than you'd think)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching movies or hanging out & reading is a constant favorite. If it's been a crazy week, though, I exercise the power of a sleep...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm actually still really into board games. A good game night never hurt anyone.
You should message me if
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