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22 Antwerp, Belgium Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18–30
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Jan 1
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Christianity, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm called Alexander. I'm transgender (ftm) and started T on the 20th of February. I'm currently searching for work and don't have a lot of time anymore to check people out on Okcupid, but I do try to reply to messages asap when I receive them. But that's besides the point I guess! Let's get you to know more about me, at least I think that's why you check this profile out, haha.

When meeting people for the first time I'm rather shy and don't talk much, the moment I get more comfortable with you however, then I will shatter your ear of almost constantly and generally often joke around. I have to say that my humor is rather strange at times and you'll have to get used to it first. That doesn't mean that I can keep my silence when I have to. So there's no fear of getting deaf, truly!

I consider myself a bisexual person, although I also admit that I generally tend to like men more. In the end though, everyone that can get past my body will have a chance. I am not truly looking for romance and more for friendships, although I think to myself that I also better mention my sexual orientation. Hahah.

If there is anything else you'd like to know, feel free to always ask. I don't bite, unless asked. :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to find work and get money for further treatment and also trying to be peace-loving. xD

Losing body weight and getting a manlier shape is also on my to-do list.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drawing, although I still can improve =) I often learn things that makes me improve my work and it always makes me happy. I also sometimes play music instruments, although I'm not too good at this. For the rest I don't know what to type here..
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I don't act very womanly, I am quite happy when they think of me as a guy =) It makes me feel like I'm accomplishing something again, after I was but a young human being.

I also have some funny/wicked sense of humor that sometimes hurt people when I flap something out unthinkingly, I obviously never do this on purpose and I'm quick to apology if I notice that they don't take it like I intended or that I hurt them quite a bit. ^^; I'm afraid of hurting someone consciously or even unconsciously.

Also I can be very blunt, so if you don't want to hear that you're fat. Don't ask me. So it can be said that I speak my mind very often and sometimes don't realize when some tact is required.

Nonetheless, the first thing ever is that I'm silent. If I meet you for the first time, don't really expect to hear a peep out of me. I sometimes offer a word here and there, but prefer to remain silent. If I get to know you better, I automatically talk more.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love a lot of books. I especially love fantasy, one of the best writers (in my opinion) are Robin Hobb and Tolkien and those by George R. R. Martin, of course. =) I read everything though, as long it seems interesting to me and I often dream away in such a situation and most know to leave me alone for a bit if they don't really need my attention. I try to listen to the one with me, but sometimes the book is more interesting for my brain who can't focus on another thing, no matter how sad it makes me to admit that. I can enjoy a book about biology as much as a fantasy sci-fi ^^

The movies are mostly the same as books, only it has to remain fantasy/action and even the comedy here and there. Serious movies are generally disliked by me and especially about war. I enjoy books about war far more than movies, maybe because there seems more emotion in it and isn't overrated and glorious like they seem in the movies, short documentaries are interesting on the other hand and I often have my TV on to watch that if I'm not behind the computer and especially if it is about animals.

Shows... well, only one answer really.. or two.. House MD and Game of Thrones. Two of the greatest series ever invented and I love to watch them whenever I can <3 I own all the DVD boxes of House. I cannot wait for the third season of Game of Thrones.

Is anime also considered shows? Because I also watch a lot of that as well. May seem immature but some animes are real pearls with a lot of meaning.. I generally look at those often, although more childish ones are enjoyed from time to time as well. Manga is also something I enjoy, although I don't own a lot. They're quite expensive, sadly enough.

My music style goes mostly to metal. I listen to metal quite often, although again, my musical taste ranges from everything. I like classical at times, modern, jazz.. Everything you can come up with, I however won't listen to hardcore, I more often than not get a headache out of it and then you can't enjoy me anymore. I become snappish after such music, really. ^^; The most annoying is that I often only like one song of a group and dislike or find the others not as good. So concerts aren't my thing, although I would love to go to them ^^

I adore a lot of food, I only can't stand mushrooms and some seafood. I enjoy simple meals more than fancy ones, so no meals that will take you hours to finish if one can consume it in thirty minutes. It also depends on my companions I have with me, if I enjoy them then I may stretch such a "short" meal out for hours. If that makes any sense XD Although it never happens a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How my possible surgery would impact my social life. World domination and other things! >)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either on the computer or going to the movies =)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a huge fear for being rejected for who I am and liked for who I am not. It's a remnant of when I was still horrible teased for being "different".
You should message me if
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You don't mind a transman. =)
If you aren't easily offended and you aren't very bothered by silliness 24/7 when speaking to me~