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64 Santa Monica, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 54–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:43am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly other
Other, and laughing about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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I like to explore and to learn. Learn new things. Be active. Stay engaged. Would rather be outdoors, he says as he taps his pencil on the table while looking out the window. Grew up near Chicago and froze my you-know-what off. Came to Los Angeles to go to graduate school and was only going to be here two years and then go back but . . . . . . Well then, what am I doing here on this site? I am looking for a friend and partner. Someone that I can rely on and who can rely on me. Someone who, through our unending and powerful mutual support, we both can reach our dreams. Someone who would like to have a darned good time doing so.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm writing a novel and have just published one which is an ebook and a paperback up on Amazon. When I am not writing I'm at work (which has nothing to do with writing the novel), or being outdoors, or working to make it happen, whatever "it" is, or planning my next great adventure which I'd really like to take with my partner.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Paying attention.
Keeping track.
I am good at massage, which came to me as a surprise, but I worked at a day spa for several years and did around 2000 massages.
Sometimes I am good at putting my foot in my mouth.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My dry sense of humor.
My blue eyes.
My eagerness to listen to you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
11/22/63 by Stephen King
Cryptonomicon by Neal Stephenson
Call and Response by T.R. Pearson
The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
TED Talks (about 20% of them)
Films of the Marx Brothers
Groundhog Day
Zoe Keating
Philip Glass
Anna Nalick
Suzanne Vega
Karl Jenkins
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends.
Pretty much everything else is expendable.
Well, maybe except that trip to Italy I'd like to take or maybe the place I'd like to move into that will allow me to have a dog or maybe going again to that terrific restaurant I went to on my birthday or maybe going sprinting on the beach at the crack of dawn or maybe just having a deep and intimate conversation with you.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The sneaking suspicion that I've entered the Matrix.
About being fully in the present moment.
My next hike.
How the universe has no end.
Creating new stories.
Getting your attention.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on something I tell myself I need to be working on unless I get fed up with working on what I'm suppose to be working on and then go out to someplace somewhere or see someone and smile and laugh and then come home and think about doing what I didn't do this night and might do the next night but then again maybe not.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I once wanted to play centerfield for the Yankees.
I think I was 11.
You should message me if
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You like to laugh (remember---dry sense of humor).
Or having a conversation might appeal to you. Part intellectual stimulation, part intimate human connection.
Or if you want to go on a hike and be surrounded by nature.
Or if you think you might accidentally have a good time with me.