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26 New Orleans, LA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Hello, I am Alex, or if you'd prefer, you can call me Alexander, but I suppose it isn't really important.. You probably won't call me Alexander anyway because that extra syllable is just too much work for your tongue, which probably why we like to text more than we like to have long extravagant conversations anymore because short and convenient is just easier. Well I for one will say that I prefer to have long conversations, that are in-depth and philosophical. I want to improvise myself on the spot to everyone I meet instead of retreading the same old thing every time. I am the Miles Davis of conversations. I love to talk everything, including interests but not limited to. Let us see where things go, let us see how it plays out, let us learn about every crevasse of each others psyche.

I love to read, I tend to read at least 50 books a year, that is a rough estimate but I will read almost anything from fiction, to science text books. I love where my imagination leads me when reading a great fiction, I want to know where I am taken. And when I read non-fiction I am a sponge who takes in all the amazing and interesting facts of the world. Why choose one or the other? That is the guy I am, I am a man of balance. I can see the good on each side of disputes, most of the time. I could never be an extremist. Why? Well I tend to see myself as a chameleon. I like to blend in with the people that I am talking with, and the easy way to do that is to just see the good in someone and ignore the bad. I can carry a conversation with just about anybody, however the traits I do not like are arrogance and hatred.

I love music, I see music as the color of sound. To me, a G chord might be a blue to me.. It might be a different color to someone else but I digress. The different minors and varieties of chords in the G key are plentiful and these are just different hues of blue. C might be yellow, and G minor might be a darker blue.. It all depends on how I am feeling.

I write songs all the time, I am constantly putting lyrics down on paper, I get inspired to write a song even from the most awkward and awful of moments. I am not so much a great singer but I do love to put melodies and harmonies down to lyrics.

So, anyway I might come off as shy and awkward at first.. However once you get to know me you will soon see that I am not only not shy, but.. Well still awkward. I remember my dreams, I write my dreams down as soon as I wake or put them on a voice recorder. I love art, I love to see and discover and feel things. I am sensitive for a guy, and I don't care if you feel that is wrong because I will not let your perception of how a man should be affect me, I am quite comfortable being single, as I have been for 3 years. I am a libertarian and believe in small government. I do not believe in the control of people and how they live their life. I could never be a republican, nor could I ever be a democrat.

I love food, I also love to cook and the different varieties of food in which I like to cook are very varied indeed. I love sushi, Thai, Chinese, BBQ, Mexican, Italian and French is yummy too. I will eat almost anything once, and I love to play drunk cook. I am constantly chugging alcohol making awesome meals for everyone.

Speaking of which, I also don't get drunk very often but I get tipsy often. I enjoy a good drink now and then and I am very selective of beer and wine. If you think Natural Lite, Budweiser or Coors is good beer than it might be hard for us to be friends. Hell if you drink commercial light beers, at least drink Miller, sheesh.

Spiritually, I am my own person, I do not subside to any religion or any spiritual view except my own. If you don't like that, then I don't care unless you start chasing me with a pitchfork, then I might care. I guess I am a mix of Buddhism and Taoism with a little of my own world views thrown in there. I suppose I don't believe in a God so that must make me an atheist. Did I just say I am an atheist living in the bible belt? Oh dear. I'm also a very emotional person and try to do the best for everyone around me out of my own belief in what is good and bad, I can not convert to a nihilistic point of view, I believe in goodness and love as more than chemical reactions.

I am always thinking, I love to over analyze everything to death and I always have a fresh perspective on something. If you talk to me and give me half the effort I do than I promise that you will be in for a great long conversation about everything. I reply to almost everyone but if I feel that we wouldn't connect don't get mad if I don't reply. I will still reply even if I just feel that we would only be friends, besides a great relationship can only be made from a great relationship. Lust without a friendship at the core is bound to break apart.

I have just moved here recently from Colorado and I am disturbed at how everyone here likes to look at you with the deepest part of their soul, it is very uncomfortable, I prefer to not be acknowledged in public.

When it comes to what I look for in a woman, I love women who are comfortable in their own skin. I have always had the best luck with women who have a tomboyish side to them, I have always had a huge crush on Clementine from Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.

I am down to try almost anything once. I am curious and I love to make people laugh and think. I can be serious but I also have a humorous tone. I believe there is a place and time for everything.

Also, I have a guilty pleasure of listening to Disney movie cartoon songs. I know.. I need to listen to like 2 straight hours of the Stooges and Metallica to get my manliness back.

I love to hike, I love to climb and I love nature and I also love riding my bike whenever I can since I am not a big fan of cars.

So anyway, when I am not working I tend to be doing something, I hate to sleep for no longer than 7 hours even though I love my sleep.. I hate to oversleep because I only have one life and I want to experience it instead of sleeping through it.


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What I’m doing with my life
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I'm working at Dollar general and working as a prep/line cook. No that is not my lifelong goal and yes I am studying to do something better. Mainly I am going to school to be a biologist but I wouldn't mind learning more and being a chef one day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing guitar, writing music, remembering incredibly random facts off the top of my head that you never knew about. I am very good at keeping a conversation going, I am very good at listening and also I am a hard worker, no matter what I do.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am shy and awkward. I suppose I don't stand out when you first meet me, I only tend to reveal myself when you get to know me more often.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music. Movies. Art. Coffee. The Little things that no one cares to notice that we enjoy. Getting lost on purpose. :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I have my own little imaginary worlds in my head. I also like to ponder basic philosophy with myself before I sleep like everyone does at some point in their life. I love to think about ideals and human values and the true meaning of life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have an Okcupid account.
You should message me if
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You have read this far and are still interested, classy. smart, calm, relaxed and enduring.

I tend to prefer older women as well..