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44 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 15
White, Other
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Greek (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I smile a lot and go the extra mile to have a fun life and it's been a great one so far...Now I want to find my match.

I'm a sweet guy that will treat you with respect. I will figure out what you like and surprise you later. I will make you breakfast. (sometimes, not every day) I'm good to have around...I can cook a meal, make a fire, fix the car, pick the wine and get us into a sold out show. I'm handy with gardening and light construction.

For fun I like to hang out with friends, feed their kids sugar then leave;)...I'm a live music junkie (Jazz, Blues, Rock, Reggae, Jam, etc..) I see live music all over the Bay Area. I'm fond of music festivals: (New Orleans Jazz fest 15 yrs, Telluride Bluegrass 5 yrs., Salvador Brazil for Carnival!,) I like camping, hiking, rafting, bonfires & bongos. I'm politically liberal and concerned with world affairs although sometimes I want to move to a beach...

My "perfect" night is around a fire, by a lake, with friends & guitars, a cooler of beer, a funny cigarette, and they want me to sing classic rock tunes. And I will.

I have been lucky to travel, so far England, Holland, Germany, France, Austria, Italy, Spain, Greece, Turkey, Israel, Egypt, Kenya, Mexico, Canada, Puerto Rico, USVI, BVI, Belize,Costa Rica, Panama, Brazil, Hawaii, Thailand, Japan...

I live in Oakland. Lived in Bay Area for 16 yrs. with a 3 year stint in NYC. Grew up in Baltimore. Prep school educated, Philosophy major.

What am I looking for? Someone else who sees the glass half full, who has a big heart, who likes an adventure, who loves music, who loves the outdoors, who is crazy sexy, who makes me feel lucky to have her.
What I’m doing with my life
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Helping Bay Area companies become more energy efficient. Involved with a clean energy start-up. I'm a driver & usher for music venues. I'm a volunteer fundraiser for a kids camp for inner city youth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Wired Magazine, Rachel Maddow, Aljazeera, RT, Bill Maher, Anthony Bourdain, True Blood, Breaking Bad, Bakesale Betty's
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Live Music, Environment, Politics, Friends, Travel

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