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Dakota301

37 / M / Straight / Single

Minneapolis, Minnesota

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:24pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am often described as a Nice Guy and sometimes I wish I weren’t. I’m educated both in academics and in life. I am employed with two awesome jobs. One pays the bills and provides the benefits while the other is for fun. I was raised by two amazing parents that continue to show me what a rock-solid marriage looks like. I had a great childhood, not spoiled but earned through good deeds and hard work. I am talented in singing, acting and I try to dance. I am skilled in construction, design and analysis. I think things through and make informed decisions yet leaving room for some spontaneity. My friends would tell you about my willingness to lend a hand without asking for anything in return. When invited to a party, I always bring a snack to share. I like to learn and stay informed about the news and history. I love working for teenagers at my 2nd job sharing my love for theater by teaching them how to build sets, setup lights and sound equipment and managing a show.

What I am not is a tall, well-built man with a tan and perfect looks. I consider myself to be average but I am not fat or out of shape. We exercise most mornings at my job and it is very physical so I probably burn more calories in a day than you do and I get paid to do it. I’m not perfect and I have my flaws and even a few secrets which I will share with someone I trust.

It seems like as I/we get older, we get used to living our lives as single people and while it is nice to have my independence, I would love to share all that I have in material possessions and what is in my heart to have someone special in my life. I’m not looking for someone who must love to travel, have fun and laugh, I want someone that I can talk to each night, someone to kiss goodnight, good morning and have a nice day and hi I’m home. Someone to do the simple day to day things. Someone to celebrate holidays with. Someone to share pain and sadness, joy and wonderful memories.

Some things that I am looking for; a good hearted person, kind, compassionate, open-minded towards how others choose to live their lives, educated, sensual, and even a few flaws in there for humility. Yes, physical attraction is a must and so is being single, smoke free and living in the metro area as well as enjoying eating meat. I am open to someone with children and while I feel my dream of having a kid(s) is fading, I might still want one.

I wish there were some word that I could say that would convince you that I am a good guy who is admittedly lonely and ready for someone to be part of my life and I in hers. I’m not the kind of guy who goes bars to pick up women. Instead, I am the hopeless romantic that thinks that I will bump into her on the elevator or in Target. I try not to be one of those guys you want to avoid. So if anything that said here resonates with you, then please say hello to me, and at the very least make a new friend.
What I’m doing with my life
Living and dreaming of the day when I can share all that I have with someone and not get miserable everytime I see an ad for Jared's.
I’m really good at
Designing and creating things. I have an idea for a new desk for my office that I want to build. I am also very good at singing.
The first things people usually notice about me
Serious. Everyone thinks I am serious and intimidating but once they get to know me, I can be a total goof.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Lost Twin Cities
Movies - Wide assortment (Forgetting Sarah Marshell, Die Hard, Star Trek, Miracle)
Shows - Wicked, The Producers, Spamalot, Disney's Beauty and the Beast
Music - I listen to KS95, Jack, Pandora. Love Accapella music, Billy Joel, Bruno Mars and Buble'
Pizza, Burgers, Steak, KFC Cole Slaw and Jimmy John's #14
The six things I could never do without
My Cellphone, Internet, music, Mt. Dew, Family and looking for the 6th - any suggestions?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- What it would be like to have someone special in my life
- Set designs for upcoming stage productions
- Wanting to have someone to talk to each day
On a typical Friday night I am
During football season, I am supervising the student section at home football games or I am at home relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I miss kissing someone and wonder if I will ever be with someone again.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 28–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You are looking for the good guy that knows how women want to be treated and is a firm believer in building a strong long lasting relationship minus head games, then say hello. I prefer someone living in the metro area.