What I am not is a tall, well-built man with a tan and perfect looks. I consider myself to be average but I am not fat or out of shape. We exercise most mornings at my job and it is very physical so I probably burn more calories in a day than you do and I get paid to do it. I’m not perfect and I have my flaws and even a few secrets which I will share with someone I trust.
It seems like as I/we get older, we get used to living our lives as single people and while it is nice to have my independence, I would love to share all that I have in material possessions and what is in my heart to have someone special in my life. I’m not looking for someone who must love to travel, have fun and laugh, I want someone that I can talk to each night, someone to kiss goodnight, good morning and have a nice day and hi I’m home. Someone to do the simple day to day things. Someone to celebrate holidays with. Someone to share pain and sadness, joy and wonderful memories.
Some things that I am looking for; a good hearted person, kind, compassionate, open-minded towards how others choose to live their lives, educated, sensual, and even a few flaws in there for humility. Yes, physical attraction is a must and so is being single, smoke free and living in the metro area as well as enjoying eating meat. I am open to someone with children and while I feel my dream of having a kid(s) is fading, I might still want one.
I wish there were some word that I could say that would convince you that I am a good guy who is admittedly lonely and ready for someone to be part of my life and I in hers. I’m not the kind of guy who goes bars to pick up women. Instead, I am the hopeless romantic that thinks that I will bump into her on the elevator or in Target. I try not to be one of those guys you want to avoid. So if anything that said here resonates with you, then please say hello to me, and at the very least make a new friend.