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DaleHWest

44 / F / Gay / Married

Bennington, Vermont

Her Details

Last Online
Apr 25
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Roller derby skater and currently skating with Pioneer Valley Roller Derby. It takes a lot of my time.

If I wooed you, you are probably another female (orientation not important) who loves pinball or Lesbian literature or roller derby or something I like doing. Do like pen pals who love writing. Riding a Moto Guzzi or cruising with other bikers is also worthy of a message or woo (would that be wink now?).

At the moment, I'm all set in the romance department. I love women and have all the man I'll ever want already in my life. I'm collecting girlfriends - the "I'd like to get to know you type."

EDIT: I am not gay, I'm bisexual, but I'm tired of mostly having men show up in my results - stalkers, matches, etc. - so I changed my status. I'm here to find female friends. I am also not bi-curious. First of all - been there done that love it. Second, I'm not a big fan of the term. I've always been attracted to women - no curious about it. I'm curious about everyone - not my orientation.

I am a girlie w/ swagger, sawyer, and derby girl

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What I’m doing with my life
At the moment, I'm spending most of my days writing a novel about roller derby, love triangles, and Barbie Bitches based on my real life experience.

I also own a production business, build sex-positive, women-positive web sites (plus some more Internet and multimedia stuff that pays the bills. Play, sing, and write as much music as I can squeeze time for.

My partner and I are pioneering a piece of forest in Southern Vermont. That means we're cutting down the trees, doing our own earth work, milling those trees into lumber (mostly large timbers) and building a studio, barn, and house with them.

Skating, derby, skating, and more derby. And now getting back to my heart's desire - sailing.

I travel a lot, so I have a fairly large area of who lives near me and when the weather warms a little bit, me and my Moto Guzzi would love to ride with someone - either in tandem or on the back seat.

I consider you local if you are in the following Vermont counties: Windham, Bennington, Rutland; in New York's Capital Region (Schenectady and east); anywhere in Massachusetts west of I-495. These days you're more local in that Massachusetts area since I'm in Florence (Northampton) at least 3 nights a week.

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I’m really good at
Writing backward. Puzzles. Debate. Being a trouble maker without ever getting in trouble. Identifying trees.

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The first things people usually notice about me
At a bout - my tail. Outside derby - eyes.

Survey says (recently) hair! I guess my OKC pictures don't really show that is long (although if you look closely you can see my pig tail braids or it hanging down under my helmet. In my first picture its up. If you met me first off line, it was probably with a helmet on and it covers up a lot of those silvers.

I'm proud of the silvers. Don't expect them to go away unless I decide to dye my hair blue or pink or something.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
(a - books) Sex, sociology, and history. I also have a huge collection of love letters between women.
(b - movies) Shrek, Master & Commander, Million Dollar Baby, indies, Mr. & Mrs. Smith, anything where the girl gets the girl at the end
(c - music) jazz and soul - but I love EVERYTHING
(d - foods) homemade pizza, red wine, sushi

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The six things I could never do without
There's really nothing I could never do without - except air, water, food and basic shelter. Companionship, wood, music, skating/derby and sex are close seconds.

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Roller derby. Sex. Social networks. Also these days I'm thinking a lot about plot, theme, and character development.

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On a typical Friday night I am
Typically Friday night is one of the few nights I usually don't do anything having to do with skating.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Seriously? We're on a social networking site.

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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 28–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You feel like it. I'll probably even write back. However, you should probably visit my web site if you just have questions

If you're a dude, right now I'm only into pen pals over topics which you can see in my profile. I've had a number of male OKCupid pen pals and have enjoyed every one.

If you're female, I'm open to a much wider range of interaction - anything from pen pals, to lunches, to dating.

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