Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have a lot of experience with relationships and almost none with
casual dating, so I enter the online dating world with some
ttrepedation. Having said that, though, I am optimistic about
finding a meaningful connection. I am looking for someone with whom
to share love and laughter, good food and great coffee, romantic
nights in and romantic nights out, adventures far from home and
adventures in bed.
I like to enjoy life. I appreciate many of the finer things but
don't need them to be happy. I like to laugh and to make others
laugh. I like to give and receive simple affection. I love good
meals and can hold my own in the kitchen. I go for a variety of
movies, from indies to trillers to pure camp. I am a geek at heart,
though I also like going to the gym and play on a baseball team in
the spring/summer. I enjoy going out to listen to music or go out
with friends, but staying home to snuggle sounds pretty
I am looking for someone who makes me laugh and enjoys my wry
humor. Smart is sexy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Searching for that sweet balance between work and play, being the
best former step-dad to my boys that I can be, searching for those
little hole-in-the-wall restaurants with the best food.
I suppose "looking for someone to share it all with" kind of goes
I am a professional massage therapist. I used to work a 9 to 5 (I
have an MBA and everything), but I decided that I wanted to have a
positive impact on the world. I really enjoy it, and I am good at
what I do.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making coffee while still asleep, listening, cuddling, making you
laugh, enjoying the moment.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I would like to think that people are first taken aback by my
striking good looks or drawn to my quick wit and sense of humor,
but I suppose those are the things most people notice second and
Are you tired of having your boyfriend constantly checking out all
your friends? Does it drive you crazy when you're on a date and the
guy you're with can't help but watch other women as they walk by?
How about when guys tell you that the most important things to them
are your mind and sense of humor but they can't stop making eye
contact with your boobs? Well there are no worries about any of
that stuff with me as I am blind. Yes, I even have a guide dog and
everything (a very friendly 75-lb. black lab). I don't let my lack
of sight get in the way of me doing what I want to do and enjoying
life, and I hope it doesn't keep you from wanting to meet me. I am,
after all, pretty great. And modest..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read a wide variety of things, from thrillers and sci/fi to
classics and non-fiction. I do, however, tend to find myself taking
a break after reading something too dense by knocking off a few
"fun"books in between.
I've found myself to be more of a Netflix TV watcher these days,
meaning that I binge-watch shows after everyone else has already
seen them. I have not seen a single episode of either Breaking Bad
or The Walking Dead yet so don't you dare spoil anything for me.
Some favorite shows include Archer, Joss Whedon stuff, Sherlock,
Game of Thrones, The Big Bang Theory and The Daily Show.
My musical tastes are pretty varied as well, though I tend to
migrate towards Ben Folds, Morphine, The Pixies, 80's alternative
and 70's funk. I enjoy listening to modern singer/songwriters and
newer alternative music, though I'm not really one for Pandora so I
usually only come across new music via recommendations. Have
I like all kinds of good food, though my mainstays are Italian,
Japanese and Thai. I also like to cook, though it's much more fun
to cook for someone (or better yet with someone) than just to cook
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
There really aren't many things that I couldn't do without, but
there are several that I'd rather not do without. Among these are
coffee, long, slow kisses, my phone (sadly), human touch, sushi and
Oh, and the love of a good woman.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I was satisfied with how I spent my typical Friday nights, I
probably wouldn't be looking to meet you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd be willing to admit lots of private things when we're talking
about them together, but here you'll have to go by my answers to
all OKC's questions - I think that's private enough for now.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're fun and loving, tired of all this online dating stuff and
ready to meet the right guy.
Who are you looking for?
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