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DanHerby

24 Nottingham, UK Genderqueer, Man

Genderqueer, Man

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 13
Orientation
Pansexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Hospitality
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Status
Single
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi there!

A bit about myself:

I'm a bit of a gamer, and more than a bit of a drinker. I aim to enjoy life, though I often miss.

I have very little idea what direction my life is going in, I've had 6 different jobs since graduating university 2 years ago, and still have found nothing I want to settle on.

I'm polyamorous, though currently entirely unattached. If you're curious, this is a good, short description: http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Polyamory

I identify as genderqueer, which usually just manifests as dressing androgynously, but occasionally I feel like putting the effort in to dress and look very fem.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to sort it the f*** out.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Having a laugh, getting along with people, and fixing things with duct tape and wishful thinking. Pink polka-dot duct tape!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair, really. And they soon realise that not much of what I say is meant to be 100% serious. Taking life seriously just upsets me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love anything by Terry Pratchett or Bernard Cornwell, Harry Potter was a massive part of my growing up, and I adore Lord of the Rings...

Films, most things.. Rocky Horror I adore, and of course Lord of the Rings is epic. Also, I was heartbroken when I found out that David Bowie's crotch in Labyrinth was fake!

For TV shows.. Mainly old sitcoms, anything from the Likely Lads and Porridge to Red Dwarf.

I'll listen to most music, though I'm more into rock/reggae/ska and anything in that sort of very general area.

Food.. Anything, really. I love a good curry, and I seem to survive on pizza.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The internet, my mates, booze, something (anything) to read, the ability to laugh at myself, and a sixth thing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future, and my place in it. Also, how well I'd do if I was a Firefly character.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking, usually. Either staying in with a mate, or hitting up pubs and/or clubs.

And sometimes, in a skirt, in a gay bar, calling myself 'Amy'.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not *actually* an alcoholic.

I felt this was worth pointing out as I recently realised I imply that I'm an alkie at least four times in this profile.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...You want to tell me something, I suppose?

But please, actually tell me something. If I'm not worth more effort than a "hi how r u?" then why bother?