I guess I am a bit of a romantic, when I think of relationships I think in terms of ideas not just attractions. I think of a person to share thoughts and ideas with, someone to get close to, both emotionally and physically, to grow and build a life with. I am not looking for an ideal or someone who comes complete; I think it is better to build a life and a relationship than just have one. Fun and excitement are wonderful things, but so are the quiet moments. Cuddling on the couch and watching a movie, making dinner together, morning coffee, exploring the city. Great sex is fantastic (always better with someone you care about), but so is a gentle touch, or a caring look.
I haven’t indicated physical preferences, age, height, race, etc. are not as important to me as who a person is. If someone is a good person, kind and true to themselves then the rest really shouldn’t matter.
Wow, I have gone on and on, thanks for reading this far. A little about me: I am 40, 6’2” tall, brown hair, blue eyes, facial hair, and an average body. I have a good career, am well travelled, I am a good cook, and I think a kind and genuine person.