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Last online
Nov 11
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Post grad
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hmm Self-summary. I feel somewhat compressed by this. There is the usual stuff of hiking and blah blah blah but I will not bore you with that. What I really enjoy is passion, conversations, art, and humor. Not necessarily in that order, but possibly in that order, or one close to it. I can have a slightly dry sarcastic wit, but I can also be really silly and I have no problem being highly self deprecating.
I am lively, introspective, have a few brain-cells left, which I have burning on high (most of the time). I can identify and even feel my own feelings. I am honest and really am not into playing games. If I like you, I'll tell you. If I want to call the next day I'll call and I do not call repeatedly or text too often. If it is working out then hallelujah! If not then no worries we can both move on and I wish you all the best.
Here is the bit that is not trying to be clever or really trying to be anything. In the end I genuinely care about people. I think too much about art pieces yet to be made and poems and prose that have not yet been written. I work hard but I am by no means a finished product. I am still figuring this whole thing out and probably will be to some extent until I expire which hopefully will be in another sixty or seventy some odd years.
Until I come up with more for this summary that is my nutshell. I welcome you to crack it open and venture farther down the rabbit hole. Cheers,

P.S. On the questions section I feel that there are some questions where I would not ever think about answering the question another way and other questions that I couldn't care less about. But here is the thing, big John Locke fan, this means that I am always open to the other side of the debate to either prove my point or to take on another world view. There is always room to shift or learn something new.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am about to leave Atlanta to go hike the Camino de Santiago and then to track around Europe for a while. I had come back to Atlanta to take care of my dad after his back surgery. He is doing wonderfully and so i am off for my pilgrimage.

When I am done with this next adventure I plan on using my masters in Depth Counseling Psychology to practice mental health counseling.
I also draw and paint. It turns out that art is a constant in my life and even when I am practicing counseling in the future I will always be creating.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being me. Oh and at not being that jerk at the end of the bar. Loser.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is that I smile a lot and that after speaking with my family I tend to take on an accent (South African, but more British than Afrikaner).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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wow, tough one. hmm top five for each no order and these do tend to change.

The Things They Carried, Tim O'Brien
The Alchemist, Paulo Coelho
Necromancer, William Gibson
Mona Lisa Overdrive, William Gibson (recent addition)
The Hobbit, J. R. R. Tolkien
Chocolat, Joanne Harris (much better than the movie)

Movies: (Only a few that I can think of right now b/c I love movies)
Eat, Drink, Man, Woman
Most John Hughes movies
High Fidelity

right now Jazz (John Coltrane, Miles Davis, Nina Simone, Etta James, Billie Holiday)
Rock (Led Zeppelin, Billie Idol, White Stripes, Tom Petty, I'm stopping there there are just way too many.
Imagine Dragons, Lana Del Rey, The Lumineers, and Ray LaMontagne to name a few more.

Not that into gangster Rap but I do like some rap and I even like the occasional country song. I prefer classical to opera and movies to live theater but that is mostly because I have seen some terrible theatrical productions.

Love Food and I am fairly adventurous. I think that great ingredients should speak for themselves and I love to cook and to try new recipes but fair warning I am gluten and dairy free. I can always find something to eat out at restaurants but feel amazing now that I have adopted this eating style. My joints no longer hurt and I am not tired all the time as I used to be. Food allergies suck.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, water, food, shelter, fire, and human interaction.
answer you were really looking for...
Good Friends, Love, conversations that are expansive in nature, sex, a wonderful novel, the earth.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
so many things...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical anymore. In the foreseeable future I will be somewhere in Europe.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not that private. You can ask me almost anything and as long as it isn't about anyone else I'll tell you.
You should message me if
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you want to otherwise don't bother. Thanks for coming, and check back later.