Now back to our regularly scheduled profile:
While I may not have everything I ever wanted in life, I'm very happy with what I have and I enjoy life to the fullest. I'm fun and funny (a bit sarcastic at times), strong and empathetic. I respect everyone the way I'd like to be respected. My family and friends and the most important aspect of my life, as it should be for most of us. I'm fortunate to have many very old, dear friends (20-25+ years). When you find good people, its best to hold on to them, they are hard to come by in this world. Honesty and integrity are very important to me. When I make a decision, I ask myself if my kids would be proud of me. As a result I'm proud of who I am.
What am I looking for in a match? Nothing. I've learned that preconceptions don't help anyone. If you are so focused on finding someone with the right hair color, body, age or job, you can easily let a wonderful person pass you by without noticing. I'm open minded when I make friends, customers, hire contractors and such. Why wouldn't I be open minded when I'm dating? I would hate to miss a great opportunity. Don't get me wrong, similar interests and values are important, so if you share mine that's a good start. But I'm also eager to be introduced to new things.
If I was in your life, I’d be loyal and dependable, never judgmental, and always honest. I’d never play head games with you, and I don’t do drama. I check my baggage at the door. I’d listen to what you have to say, and I’ll always tell you what’s on my mind (kindly, of course). I'd make you laugh, make you think, and make you wonder. You’d feel good about yourself, you’d feel sexy, and you'd feel important. You’d realize you can always count on me and that I’d always be there if you need me. I'm very affectionate, and enjoy giving physical and emotional attention as much as receiving it.
If you can use someone like that, drop me a note and let’s see where it goes…
"Don't waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long, and in the end it's only with yourself." - Mary Schmich
PS: After filling out all this stuff and answering all those questions, I took a look at my personality profile. While it seems pretty accurate, I have to take exception to two things: First, it says I am much more arrogant than average, second is I'm less kind, which couldn't be further from the truth. I am very kind, caring, polite, respectful, and empathetic, and yes, confident. You could never find anyone, not even an ex, who would say I'm arrogant and unkind. Just sayin'