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DanaDark

24 / M / gay / Single

San Jose, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and very serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Unemployed
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am Obscene, Passionate, and Reasonable.

My Self-Summary

To begin, I am a student at SJSU (San Jose State University). I am studying Computer Science and am really interested in it. I find myself contemplating my programs even when out and about with friends or at dinner etc. So I think I made a good decision when I switched from Pre-Nursing.

I really enjoy going out to clubs and dancing, especially with friends. I do not go to pick up on guys because I am way too shy for that sort of thing. I just really enjoy drinking and dancing and seeing people I do not see enough of.

Sometimes I get to go out to play pool which is also a great deal of fun. Hard to beat a night out with bear, friends, and billards right? I also like to play poker with my friends once a week. Bears, cards, money... great combination again. I tend to play well, but surely no Ace.

When alone and faced with free time, I play video games, mostly on the computer as they tend to be way easier to modify than console games. It gets kind of lonely playing games, so I ry to find multiplayer ones to play with others. Which brings me to movies... I never want to go alone to the movies, but its hard to find friends to go see something with. If you like movies, talk to me ha ha.

Anyway, personality wise, I am rather sarcastic, sort of bleak in my sense of humor, but very empathetic and compassionate towards those I care about. I tend to focus on realism and realistic probabilities rather than induldge in fantasy during my waking hours.

What I’m doing with my life

Well, hard to say really. Currently I am still in school trying to get a B.S. degree in Computer Science. It is taking way longer than normal because I was a Pre-Nursing major and had done ALL the pre-reqs for Nursing... only to jump ship last minute. Needless to say, this has added years onto my education.

It is my hope to eventually get my degree, then find a stable career in one of the local tech companies. Google, which is close by, is pretty much every Computer Scientists dream job, but I am not so sure. I have a few companies in mind but need to really get a sense of their corporate culture and such before really inquiring. So far though, the Google employees I've met have been the coolest people around he he.

After a few years of actual working and debt paying, I think I will indeed want to go back to school and get my Masters and maybe even Ph.D. Not entirely sure I want to spend my entire life in school though.

I’m really good at

I am a Jack of All Trades type of guy. I tend to be really good at everything. However, I am the best at nothing. Really wish I had SOMETHING I was excellent at, but alas, Jack of All Trades.

The first things people usually notice about me

People seem completely amazed that I am bald. Granted, in the gay community, being bald is like a giant billboard saying "Will be single forever", but I haven't had much of a problem with it.

As well, many people are drawn to my eyes... I feel very flattered when anyone compliments me on them, is always an uplifting thing.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: I read newspapers and science articles, not books.

Movies: Elizabeth, Saw, Silent Hill, Judge Dredd, Armageddon, and lots more.

Music: Goth, dance, pop, classical... pretty much most music. I like anything with a good beat that I can dance to.

Food: Chocolate or Vanilla Ice Cream

The six things I could never do without

1. Friends
2. Coffee
3. Dancing
4. Movies
5. Family
6. Rationality

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Politics and how messed up the world really is. Honestly, I could rant and rave about it for hours... but I usually leave that for long nights with close friends and cups of coffee.

Feel free to ask me about it sometime! :)

On a typical Friday night I am

I stay home most fridays. I try to get a few friends to come over and play poker and have a few drinks, but that doesn't always happen. Sometimes I manage to hit up a club or what not, but not that often. I think I need to make more friends so I can up my entertainment level.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have practically no self esteam. I am not a hot guy and barely would qualify myself for average. This, ofcourse, does not mean I value myself as a human being less than I otherwise would. Unlike many people, I do not place a value on myself and others based on physical appearance.

You should message me if

You are sane, semi-sane, wish to be sane, or have figured sanity is for the weak. All kidding aside, if you think we'd make good friends or would like to maybe go for coffee or a date or whatever, surely feel free to contact me. I try to reply to everyone.

And definately do not be scared to send an email, I do not bite and am very honest about everything.