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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–65
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly vegan
Not at all
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I believe in love ... the forever and ever kind,

I believe in special moments that make us forget about time,

Am I a bit too hopeful with a starry-eyed dream?

To wish for romance, laughter, bliss, and everything in between?

I’ve been to Paris, Athens, Salzburg, London, Rome,

I’ve seen Versailles, Parthenon, Louve, and Vatican (Pope’s home),

I love urban adventures and have dancing shoes (just in case),

I like to walk through the woods, swim in the ocean, and leave without a trace,

I have a fitness-oriented lifestyle and am an environmental type,

I’ve surfed SoCal waves, kayaked the Sea of Cortez, and mountain biked Organ Pipe,

My mantra is self-improvement, lifelong learning, trying something new,

It feeds my mind to know creative people with a quirky intellectual hue,

I’m a Renaissance man of many talents with a solid moral core,

I’m socially conscious, politically astute, sex positive, and don’t snore,

The woman I am thinking of ... she strives for optimal health and wellness of mind and body,

She is elegant, feminine, thoughtful, and (in her own way) is a real hottie,

She’s a great communicator, an attentive listener, and fun to be around,

She believes in equality, honesty, truth, and is sometimes profound,

Might we be like two happy birds perched on the branch of a beautiful tree?

Do you still believe in love ... and that the best things in life are free?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a researcher in state government, so numbers are my thing,

But my job doesn't define me, it's just my occupational scene,

Working in public service makes me feel good though,

and being close to politics can be an entertaining show!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Bicycling more miles than I drive a car,

Appreciating people for who they really are,

Being in the moment, experiencing the now,

Enjoying a good read as time allows,

Not going to the movies as much as I should,

Or attending live theater as much as I could,

Eating mostly locally grown food,

Dancing to classics like "In the Mood,"

Wishing I had a girlfriend, if you know what I mean,

Because sharing your heart is such a precious thing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is my stature – my height and the confident way I carry myself.

People immediately notice my warm, friendly smile.

Other first impressions include my strength, gentleness, charm, intelligence, and thoughtfulness.

I'm a modern day Fred Astaire, someone who could sweep you off your feet!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Ethnic restaurants with non-English menus,

Historic places and vintage cultural venues,

Radio stations on the left side of the FM dial,

Hats (not sports related) with impeccable style,

Merchandise that is ridiculously priced to move,

Complex harmonies that get me into the groove,

Spitting out watermelon seeds in the backyard with a friend,

A happy dog who chases balls/frisbees to no end,

Curious finds at gift shops, bookstores, and antique malls,

The stress release (and relief) when a significant other calls,

Sitting on an old log by a warm campfire,

Swapping stories that stimulate and inspire,

Movies based on love stories that make me think and cry,

Singing birds who remind me to look up and enjoy the beautiful blue sky,

Laying on a couch, arm in arm, nestled side by side,

Disclosing tender secrets we too often hide,

It's the little things that make this journey meaningful and sentimental,

Like photo booths, popcorn, and ferris wheels -- so simple but elemental,

The refreshing sound of a waterfall, a primordial luxury we must not miss,

The serenity of a nice date and the splendid joy of an overdue first kiss.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Happiness
Aristotle said this is the only thing we desire for its own sake.

2. Freedom of Speech
"Four score and seven years ago ...."

3. Romance
A little bit of this goes a long way....

4. Summer
Long days, solar tea, garden hose showers, sun dried laundry, swimming, going barefoot, fresh corn on the cob!

5. Weekends
I wish everyday could be a Saturday.

6. Democracy
Often imitated ... never replicated.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Matters of the heart and how great relationships feel,

Pleasant surprises and what could possibly become real,

To share a love that is genuine and true,

A blend of fact and fiction, a mysterious fairy-tale deja vu,

Relaxing weekend jaunts exploring the coast,

Hearing the ocean's roar is something I like the most,

An enchanted forest beneath redwood giants,

A green canopy splendor above a lustful misty silence,

Let's catch the colorful parade downtown,

Tubas blasting loud with baton twirlers getting down,

Community events, neighborhood festivals, and off-Broadway plays,

Symphonies, concerts, opera, and magnificent ballets,

Dances of the dragon for Chinese New Year,

Cinco de Mayo with mariachi's to hear,

Are these some things we could possibly share?

Perhaps we should meet and then go from there?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Glad the work week is over, it is such a grind,

Relax ... recharge ... and feel a bit less confined,

Some unstructured time -- a luxury to behold,

Begin to unwind and let worries unfold,

Thoughts of retirement that’s still far away,

Finding joy in the now is a gift for today,

Fresh air outside renews as it should,

Getting some exercise makes me feel good,

A decent night’s sleep recharges the mind,

Surreal dreams sneak up from behind,

Is love only fleeting like in movies we see?

So many single people: How can this be?

“I learned the truth at 17” – remember that song?

Love so elusive and its absence so wrong,

I gaze at the moon and the stars shining bright,

Light years away in remote places out of sight,

Seeking a woman who stimulates me,

A beautiful spirit -- Where could she be?

A kind hearted soul with whom I connect,

Am I the guy that she would select?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is ...... I've answered 2,301 OkCupid questions so far.
I didn't skip any and answered all publicly.

How about you?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are into unique one of a kind things,

You opt for quality over quantity, the sensations it brings,

The relationship you seek is of the companionate kind,

Based on mutual respect and emotionally aligned,

You get excited by the possibilities of a nontraditional love,

Unconstrained by gender roles and patriarchal rules from above,

Could we create our own vision of a bond to endure?

A cooperative journey with wonderful experiences for sure,

The mystery in our lives, twists and turns to unfold,

Like a roller-coaster ride so thrilling and bold,

A forward thinking couple that others love to see,

We inspire each other to be the best that we can be.