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53 Sacramento, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–65
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:51am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Strictly vegan
Not at all
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I believe in love ... the forever and ever kind,

I believe in special moments that make us forget about time,

Am I a bit too hopeful with a starry-eyed dream?

To wish for romance, laughter, bliss, and everything in between?

I’ve been to Paris, Athens, Salzburg, London, Rome,

I’ve seen Versailles, Parthenon, Louve, and Vatican (Pope’s home),

I'm into urban adventures and have dancing shoes (just in case!),

I love to walk through the woods, swim in the ocean, and leave without a trace,

I have a fitness-oriented lifestyle and am an environmental type,

I’ve surfed SoCal waves, kayaked the Sea of Cortez, and mountain biked Organ Pipe,

My mantra is self-improvement, lifelong learning, trying something new,

It feeds my mind to know creative people with a quirky intellectual hue,

I’m a Renaissance man of many talents with a solid moral core,

I’m socially conscious, feminist minded, sex positive, and don’t snore,

My ideal woman strives for optimal health and wellness of mind and body,

She is elegant, feminine, thoughtful, and (in her own way!) is a real hottie,

She’s a great communicator, an attentive listener, and fun to be around,

She believes in equality, honesty, truth, and is sometimes profound,

Might we be like two happy birds perched on the branch of a beautiful tree?

Do you still believe in love ... and that the best things in life are free?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a researcher in state government, so numbers are my thing,

But my job doesn't define me, it's just my occupational scene,

Working in public service makes me feel good though,

and being close to politics can be an entertaining show!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Bicycling more miles than I drive a car,

Appreciating people for who they really are,

Being in the moment, experiencing the now,

Enjoying a good read as time allows,

Not going to the movies as much as I should,

Or attending live theater as much as I could,

Eating mostly locally grown food,

Dancing to classics like "In the Mood,"

Wishing I had a girlfriend, if you know what I mean,

Because sharing your heart is such a precious thing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is my stature – my height and the confident way I carry myself.

People immediately notice my warm, friendly smile.

Other first impressions include my strength, gentleness, charm, intelligence, and thoughtfulness.

I'm a modern day Fred Astaire, someone who could sweep you off your feet!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Ethnic restaurants with non-English menus,

Historic places and vintage cultural venues,

Radio stations on the left side of the FM dial,

Hats (not sports related) with impeccable style,

Spitting out watermelon seeds in the backyard with a friend,

A happy dog who skillfully chases balls/frisbees to no end,

Curious finds at gift shops, bookstores, and antique malls,

The stress release (and relief) when a significant other calls,

Sitting on an old log by a warm campfire,

Singing songs and swapping stories that stimulate and inspire,

Movies based on love stories that make me think and cry,

Singing birds who remind me to look up and enjoy the big beautiful blue sky,

Laying on a couch, arm in arm, nestled side by side,

Disclosing secrets and personal thoughts we too often hide,

It's the little things that make this journey meaningful and retrospectively sentimental,

Like popcorn, photo booths, and drums circles -- so simple but elemental,

The refreshing sound of a waterfall, a primordial luxury we must not miss,

The serenity of a nice date and the splendid joy of an overdue first kiss.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Happiness
Aristotle said this is the only thing we desire for its own sake.

2. Freedom of Speech
"Four score and seven years ago ...."

3. Romance
A little bit of this goes a long way....

4. Summer
Long days, solar tea, garden hose showers, sun dried laundry, swimming, going barefoot, fresh corn on the cob!

5. Weekends
I wish everyday was a Saturday.

6. Democracy
Often imitated ... never replicated!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Matters of the heart and how great relationships feel,

Pleasant surprises and what could possibly become real,

To share a love that is genuine and true,

A wonderful blend of fact and fiction, a mysterious fairy-tale deja vu,

Relaxing weekend jaunts exploring the coast,

Hearing the ocean's roar is something I like the most!

A walk in the woods beneath towering redwood giants,

A green canopy splendor above a lustful misty silence,

Let's catch the colorful parade downtown,

Tubas blasting really loud and baton twirlers getting down,

Community events, neighborhood festivals, and off-Broadway plays,

Symphonies, concerts, opera, and magnificent ballets,

Dances of the dragon for Chinese New Year,

Cinco de Mayo with mariachi's to hear,

Are these some things we could possibly share?

Maybe we should meet and then go from there?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably getting some exercise followed by a nice meal.

However...if you and I were to become a couple then.....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is ...... I've answered 2,281 OkCupid questions so far.
I didn't skip any and answered all publicly.

How about you?
You should message me if
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You are looking for more than an ordinary Joe,

Someone with sophistication and is in-the-know,

You prefer unique one-of-a-kind things,

You opt for quality over quantity, the sensations it brings,

You are a deep diver, socially, who sees beauty within,

Sharing personal stories of where we've all been,

The mystery in our lives, twists and turns to unfold,

Like a roller-coaster ride so thrilling and bold,

Has OkCupid found the one just for you?

If interested, let me know because I'll probably like you too....