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40 • San Francisco, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 21–44
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 13
- White, Other
- 6′ 3″ (1.90m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Not at all
- Judaism, but not too serious about it
- Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Mostly monogamous
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Has cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
**Seeking a sweet n casual romance with a flirtatious fox. **
I am a rare and unique creature seeking a match for delicious dates, magical nights and transcendent Sunrises.
6'4, 210# 420+ heart conscious, hard body, fresh and freaky, Shaman, Father, Artist, Entrepreneur and Explorer.
Cats over dogs,
)(ome in SF.
Seeking a hot, fit, freaky, high integrity, 420+, open minded, kind, enlightened, hot, stylish, versatile, modern, capable, hilarious and self aware woman for the best of times.
Maturity a must, age unimportant.
I am attracted to dusky eyes, dark hair and a firm body.
I'm not into bars, bros, team sports, or drinking.
Read on if this resonates...
**I am a cat person.**
I am honest, hard working, loyal and kind.
I was a husky (chunky/chubby), shy, picked on kid, it sucked, now I'm not.
I am handy, can build stuff, break stuff,
and then clean it all up.
Happy and hunky,
I am grounded, centered, self aware,
and take care of myself, physically and spiritually.
I love life and am a realist who sees
life as 3/4 full.
Hilarity is with me daily, (on a deeper level, I am hilarious)
Humor is my shield and sword,
If shields and swords were used for
making laughter and jokes.
Quirky, topical and irreverent,
I weedle, not stab, embrace not exclude.
On the serious side, I read the WSJ* everyday.
Front page, plus op-eds. Have for 15 years.
Please have an awareness of life outside your local bubble.
I love to camp, in the woods or in the desert. I enjoy music festivals, Ren Fair, solstice parties, playful gatherings and celebrations.
If this helps you out... I'm a Scorpio, year of the Tiger, and an ENTJ/INTJ, water sign, Libertarian, Capitalist, Artist, Entrepreneur, Shaman, Leader and Lover.
I am youthful, playful and peasent. I am also wise and evolved beyond my years and behave like an older man.
I enjoy late nights, rolling into sunrise, or early mornings stretching out till dusk.
* Wall Street Journal (it is a newspaper)
**If you are "damaged" in a deep way and are not well on the road to healing and evolving... please go do that before we connect. You will feel good and so will I. **
I started a Frozen Yogurt company 2 1/2 years ago, where I create and hand craft our unique flavors. Its been quite a success and I opened a second shop 8 months ago.
I am a great and loving father to 3 kids, which is where I spend much of my time when not working.
My physical fitness matters to me. It is a priority. I spend 60 to 90 minutes a day physically active... Bikrahm, heavy bag, lots of jump rope, hills, kettle bells, medicine balls, dance, and Crossfit like workouts.
I am an Artist at Heart.
A Creative type. Arty. Eclectic. I see the world from unique angles. However I am also logical, thoughtful and honest with my emotions, while feeling them truly.
*SOME BALANCE: All the awesome stuff about me is fun to write... However, I want to be clear...I am not perfect. I have cavities. I make mistakes. I just try not to make the same one twice. I get sick. I get hurt. I have flaws, as we all are imperfect. It is a journey, not a destination, so I try to take the long view and improve a little bit every day.*
That being said, I am Mostly Awesome.
Life also has a way of surprising you with what you need, when you need it... regardless of when you think you should get it.
Being a Father.
Treating my own injuries.
Making Frozen Yogurt.
Taking soulful Portraits.
Being prepared. Being a friend. Being a Mensch.
Being a Lover.
Pulling your hair.
You know what I mean.
Making you feel safe.
Being a Man*
*With a softer self aware side that loves kittens, stickers, bubbles, glitter and connection.
I have been told many times that I "glow like a light", "fill up a room with my energy" and "radiate".
My outfit...I tend to be dressed up, with style and panache.
I also smell good.
Movies: Anything with Will Ferrel, Loopers, Movies set in the future/on a ship/at war
Many of the animated films. Comedies.
Music: Eclectic with a focus on EDM. Also enjoy Country, Show tunes, and A Capella. (I sing and dance...) Dancehall, Dub, Reggaeton, Hip Hop, Swing, funky breaks and more.
Food: Dairy. Protein. These are two of my favorite things. I like the lighter, veggie heavy cooking of Thailand and Vietnam. Pho has been a recent discovery and I love it. Greek yogurt. Oatmeal. Eggs.
Then going out to dance with friends,
camping in the woods,
traveling the world,
shooting a party, attending a party, throwing a party.
Could be Im tuckered out from the week and going to bed at 9pm.
Yes, I could do the truffle shuffle** back then, now I can do the Tough Mudder.
**Truffle Shuffle: From Goonies. The saddest dance ever.
You think we share Core Values.
You can dance unselfconsciously,
take care of yourself,
be taken care of,
are fit, athletic, in your body,
fun and freaky.
You are sexually mature and happy with your body, using it as God intended for love and light. Your sexual being matters to you and you spend time educating yourself about its uses and functions. You embrace your inner self. Plus you can laugh about it while being serious.
You want a romantic connection mixed with an activity partner, to explore life and enjoy each other. This appeals to you great... lets get together.
Confidence is hot.
I am reliable and a man of my word. I expect open and honest interactions... Opposite of shady. So if you get off on drama, crazy antics, and intrigue... keep on clicking.
I tend to get along with artists, makers, crafters, athletes, dancers, yoga teachers, body workers, Burners, explorers, New Yorkers, science geeks, type A women, womyn who run with wolves, performers, gypsies, actors, multi-faceted misfits and really happy people.
A busy full life leaves little room for back and forth email over weeks. If I contact you its because I want to meet in the real world and see if we have a chemical connection too... see where it goes. If it only is a shared tea, at least we had a moment, hopefully a laugh.
Truth in advertising. Be you and love yourself.
I am kind, smell good and have a big heart. I treat others with dignity, respect and honesty. If this resonates, with you,
People have tastes.
I am attracted to dusky eyes and dark hair.
May your search be fruitful,
**I am a cat person.
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