30 Jamaica Plain, MA
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My self-summary
I exist within the system but am not of the system. I am radical in perspective but understand reality.


I either like to be joking around completely or having conversations about serious things. I can talk seriously about personal/social issues and switch to speaking in satire rather fluidly.

Biking while listening to trip hop/ambient/dance music is wonderful.

I'm honest, empathic, ironic, logical, intelligent.

Calvin and Hobbes is all you need to read to understand the world. Or at least America.

Besides yelling about how to change the world, I also like normal people things like being outside, being silly, exploring, going to coffee shops, and other typical bougie things.
What I’m doing with my life
Getting a Master's of Social Work. Hating the institution.

Doing a lot of singer/songwriter stuff, and hopefully putting together a band soon. I play weekly at open mics. I can play the guitar better than I can sing, and am always on the lookout for a wonderful female vocalist to accompany me. I want to be like Derek Trucks and Susan Tedeschi.

Trying to increase my social circle. Messaging people on OK.
I’m really good at
Being critical but understanding.
Communicating openly.
Understanding oppression
Throwing a frisbee.
Explaining things in a clear way for people.
Having existential crisis.
Drinking whiskey.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Shows: Arrested Development, The Sopranos, Peep Show, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Seinfeld, Simpsons, Chapelle's Show, Boardwalk Empire.

Music: .
Howlin Wolf, Muddy Waters, Etta James, Derek Trucks
Miles, Monk, Coltrane, Grant Green, John Scofield (oh right, girls think jazz is superrrrr cool)
The Band, Fela Kuti, Bob Marley, Bill Withers, Portishead, Radiohead, Fiona Apple, Dead Prez, Demien Marley, A Perfect Circle, James Brown, Mavis Staples, The Wood Brothers, Nina Simone, Wax Tailor, Crooked Still, Blue Sky Black Death, Bonobo

Books: Chomsky, Carl Rogers, Rollo Mayes; psychology, existentialism, gender/love/sex, race, political/sociological theory, radical mental health
The six things I could never do without
Music/My guitars
Being Alone
Being with people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Writing and playing music
The people I know and used to know
How people came to be the way they did based on their circumstances
Psychology, Morality, Justice, Political thought, Philosophy, Gender, Sexuality, Radical Mental Health. Anti capitalism. Disrupting systems. Change and growth.
On a typical Friday night I am
Nothing. I have to rest up for brunch and farmers markets on Saturday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
"We are only as sick as our secrets"
You should message me if
You question standards, values, and actions of what you see around you. You are funny, kindhearted, passionate about things. You have issues and you know it, or you don't. You know how to communicate openly and honestly. You've had some experiences that have humbled you in your life.

Weird, sarcastic, radical, queer, feminists, introspective people would be cool.