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  • Ages 28–42
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Last online
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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
My self-summary
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When I'm not working on art or in school, I love going out to see music, hiking and eating out in neat little places. I love the energy. Below is my lame profile that has been around for years of south carolina and possibly some remnants of new york. One day I will get around to deleting it guess. I'm living the southern adventure! I needed to get out of nyc so I moved south. I really love to paint and draw. I used to do storyboards for ad agencies in nyc. I even got to do a big watch illustration and a kids book which was cool! I started a figure drawing class and that's super fun to be part of that. I like traveling,(spent the summer in Florence, Italy) taking day trips, Asheville is heaven! I like museums, historic sights and any kind of nature/science center. Aquariums are magical to me. I love to learn new things,but hate spelling and grammar! I'm looking for the one, or cool friends! At this point in life, I'll be happiest with a sweetheart, but dating is better than not dating. I believe lovers shouldn't expect each other to make each other happy. They need to focus on making themselves happy and have a happy partner to share the good times. Perhaps we shouldn't take our aggression out on our lovers. Imagine having a best friend you don't want to be without!

You can spy on me more here.

I am creative, goofy, and peaceful
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm trying to be a good educator, become a selling artist, do my own art, teach drawing and hopefully learn to surf! I'm on my way! Whether I stay in the south depends on the girl. I bought this awesome little house on a private road and it has a huge pond with big white birds who make it look pretty. It's a quiet paradise. At least when my neighbors aren't partying. I had a full blown heart attack and bypass surgery back in march. Bad genes, good health. I'm still healing but I was lucky I got my warning early. I feel more on track now than ever. Lifes little directions that lead us I guess.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, making people feel calm, good and accepted.I'm told I'm different. I don't see it. Most men love sports, I love naps. Most men love cars, I love museums. Most men love hot bodied girls, I love nerdy, trendy, artsy or sweet souled girls.

Seriously, I would prefer someone I click with. I really do want a beautiful best friend. I'm not afraid to fall in love with the right girl. I don't want anything other than companionship. I have my own life and plenty to keep me from being bored. I just want to share some good times with a special someone once in awhile.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I wouldn't have a clue. Hopefully not that I'm skinny. I'm working on that!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like stories that enlighten and make you feel good to be alive. I havevn't had tv for years. I do miss. pbs documentaries though.

Books: Narcissus and Goldman, The Fountainhead, Rodin on Art, Spell of the Sensuous, The Handyman, All Vonnegut, Twain. Anything on John Singer Sargent or classical painting. I read a lot of bio's on artists and musicians. There's many more, I like to read.

Amelie, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Lost in Translation, Fight Club, The Hawk is Dying, Midnight Run, Rushmore, Bottle rocket Life Aquatic, or any Wes Anderson,Y Tu Mama, Tambien,Grosse Pointe Blank,Little Mrs. Sunshine, What the Bleep do we Know, I love Barcelona, Last Days of Disco, Kicking and Screaming (Not the Will Farrell movie) Garden State,. For music I'm big on indy folk these days, Bonnie Prince Bonnie, Great Lake Swimmers, Iron and Wine, Bon Iver, Horse Feathers, Carissa's Weird, bright eyes,bonnie prince billy and palace music, love Rem, police, sting, peter gabriel, clash, face to face, the samples, phish, firehose, janes addiction, Mark knopfler and Emmylou Harris, Big Head Todd, Luna, Dean and Britta. Spiritulized, edith piath,slower Springsteen,dlyan,Sonic Youth,Dinosaur jr, James, Toad the wet sprocket, The Feelies, josh ritter, leonard cohen, Pete Seeger, Rusted Root, Garrison Keilor, The Jesus and Mary Chain, My Morning Jacket, native american and other world music, and a little classical. I'm all over the place!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Probably something to make art with. Or maybe just hot chocolate? Ok, my ipod! I'm good at doing without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
being positive. Positive = happy. Making my students strong and happy. Social Justice, art to change the world, Turning my adult figure drawing students into the fastest improving bunch ever! But they won't do my homework!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Never can tell. Dinner, bars, painting, walking in the moonlight and dreaming, watching a foreign movie with a glass of wine at home, lots of coffee shops, blasting headphones and pretending I'm giving a concert (no one is ever allowed to see this).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Once in awhile I read comic books and watch superhero cartoons. I have been doing it for as long as I can remember. I had batman underwear.
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