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33 Berkeley, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27-34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 1
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Dark and brooding, I seethe with untendered passion. Sorry... haven't been there lately. Mostly, I'm like a clown that has to keep a straight face in order to get stuff done. An eccentric (euphamism for weird) fellow, looking for that eccentric lady, for friendship, companionship, and who knows what. Not that I'm clownish, rather reserved until you know me well, but I often see the absurd in the otherwise mundane. Still searching...
Hey, ARCO(AM/PM gas stations) have limited time only STARCRAFT beverage cups - snap one up! ...did anybody go to Infected Mushroom in SF this past Saturday? ...ok, off to the climbing gym.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working long hours to get my software co. off the runway... cleared for takeoff, mostly, but also caring for chronically ill Mom.
I’m really good at
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writing code, turning obstacles into paths, slightly warped quips (with the right audience), daydreaming about random stuff. Wish I was better at, video games (just don't have the time to master), climbing (need to get more flexible), finding time in the day for every little thing that needs attention, resisting the thingamajig compulsion.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Bald head, reserved dimeanor, goofy smile, good listener
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anna Karenina, Digital Fortress, Ths Descent of Men, The Audacity of Hope, Steppenwolf, Sperm Wars, The Fountainhead, Madame Bovary, Confucious:The Analects, Freakonomics, The Help, Outliers, etc. Movies: Blade Runner, Silent Running, Moon, Fifth Element... (yes, sci fi geek), almost anything Peter Sellers was in (esp. Dr Fu Manchu, Being There, Dr Strangelove), psychological thrillers, and Studio Ghibli. Don't really watch TV shows. Music: Electronica (large genre), alternative, classical (baroque), really good soundtracks (Ennio Morricone). Food: bbq'd oysters, crab, Thai, good sushi, Korean Bibimbap, a good IPA.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The notion that my true love is out there (or already with me... ), the idea that I'm doing something productive for society and the planet... ok, I'll back down off the podium =p, cheese, fresh squeased oj, cuddles (for too much longer), working out regularly, reading profound or informative material, laughter!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My son, who I lost to cancer 3 years ago. He's always there.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not typically doing anything, routinely. More than likely, reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Previous contents omitted for having elicitted an overwhelming response, lol.
But I will admit to being unabashed. =)
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