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35 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:36pm
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Full figured
Not at all
Buddhism and laughing about it
Working on University
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Still in search of stability. And, ideally, someone who can emphasize with that statement.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, eating, talking about what I'm going to and hope to eat, (if you don't think it's a skill, you've never been to New Orleans), writing, the blarney, working with autists.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm pretty tall, from a distance. And I like to talk. I really, really like to talk. This, more than anything else I've figured, divides the people who enjoy my compony from those that don't.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Moviegoer, Tampa, 2666, MaddAddam, Chronic City, Lilith's Brood, Confederacy of Dunces, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Hell's Angels, Pirsig, Ham on Rye.
Music: Dead Prez, That Dog, Kendrick Lamar, Trinidad James, Postal Service, Eliot Smith, Jenny Lewis, Blackstar, Bun B.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My longest-standing possession is a chef's knife my sister gave me on our eighteenth birthday.
Family, generally.
A depressing amount of technology.
I really don't like objects much. don't have a lot of them, and I tend to misplace them anyway. As NYCbikesnob said, i try to focus on the experience of riding the bike, since it will get stolen eventually.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Meta-Cognition: is that response an example of my tendency to read things literally?
But a lot of my thought process are epistemological or ontological, so it's true as far as that goes.
Food, feminism, disability/mental health, baseball, novels, comics, economics, Oakland.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've come to think this question means "what potential deal-breakers would you like to reveal, [which we have failed to reveal with our details sidebar]?" So: I'm autistic, and mentally ill, (not the same thing, ask me why).
You should message me if
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If you'd like to have a conversation.