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46 M Albuquerque, NM

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Sep 9
White, Other
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm currently seeing someone so I'm not actively dating other people right now. Feel free to mesage me to chat or be friends though. Good luck with your search on cupid

Hi, I've decided to give this site another try. I've been spending the last year and a half learning how to date again after a 15 year relationship and discovering who I am as a single male in his 40's.
I prefer slim-medium, athletic built women. Intelligence is a big turn on for me. Sex is important to me but I'm actually looking to get to know the women I date and find a long term relationship with someone special.
This might take a month, 6 months, a year, or more, so in the meen time I'm looking to date simmilar minded women who ultimately are looking for more than the occasional weekend hook up.

I'm an honest, openminded, loving man who belives in being upfront with who I am and what I want. I belive that honest communication is the key to sucessful long term relationships weather it's with friends, lovers, or just co-workers and coustomers at work. I treat people with respect and I expect the same in return. I generaly treat women as equals in my everyday life. I like confident women who know what they want and have a stong sence of "self".
In the bedroom I'm definately dominant and prefer women who take the submissive role. I have a kinky side and I enjoy trying new things, but if your just looking for a sex partner with nothing beyond that, I'm not your guy.

I'll be adding more to my profile in the comming weeks, so stay tuned.
What I’m doing with my life
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Exploreing all aspects of myself as a single male in his 40's. Discovering who I really am sexualy and spiritualy without inhibition.
Rebuilding my life after a 15 year relationship and finding happiness in the hear and now.
I enjoy going to see the latest movies in theaters, hiking, photography, being out in nature, and working on hobby projects.
I've lived in Albuquerque for 3 years now and have had the same job since I moved here. I've done commercial construction hvac since I was out of high school.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing things, working with my hands, problem solveing.
Seeing "the big picture" in situations and looking beyond the surface of people.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My size and the size of my hands.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Syfi movies, horror, action, mystery.
Love sushi, indian, middle eastern, thai,.....well pretty much anything not bland.
Photography, hiking, nature in general.
I'm usally interested in any music that isn't mainstream except country. I get into stuff on the radio from time to time, but it's usally so over played that I get bored with it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
great food
great sex
Friends you can count on
The internet, ha ha.
Intimate companionship
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where we are going as far as our evolvement as a species. What changes will I get to observe and be apart of in my lifetime. My goels for the future and how the decisions I make today effect those goels.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends or just chillin after a long week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm into BDSM and Shibari. Might as well put it out there right from the get go. It inevitably will come up at some point. It's really only one aspect of myself and who I am as a person, but given the taboo nature of it, it's better to be up front. Vanilla sex is satisfing for me too. Sometimes there just isn't time to bring out the rope and toys.
You should message me if
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If you made it down to the bottom of this page and you are not freaked out by the BDSM part of my profile. Want to explore your kinky side? Want to know more about me, just ask, I've got nothing to hide.