Affectionate - I like to cuddle, and physical contact is important
Intelligent - I like to figure things out and discuss complexities
Delicate - I can be hurt. I do like to be cared for
Extroverted - I enjoy time with people
Creative - I like to make things, and think of ideas
Romantic - Little cute things can mean the world to me
Passionate - I pour myself into what, and who, I'm interested in
Dorky - I like silly jokes and puns and can be goofy at times
Monogamous - I am a pair-bonder, and prefer 1:1 romance
Queer with Kids - I do have kids who are my priority always
Femme of center - I've some tomboy traits, but am quite girly
Switch - not just in the bedroom, I need to lead and be led some
Emotional - I have very strong feelings, about everything
Fierce - I will fight for my identity, my beliefs and my loved ones.
Sensitive - I feel. I am intuitive. I care a lot, about many things
Feminist - if you don't know why then you're the reason
Nerdy - I love scifi/fantasy type of things and can really geek out
The little spoon - metaphorically as well
Obviously chemistry is chemistry, but here are some of the attributes I would choose were I to design a partner:
Intelligent - you make connections, and figure things out
Affectionate - touch is important part of your communication
Emotionally honest - you are aware of your feelings
Dorky - silly and goofy at times like me
Good with kids - mine are 6 & 9 and you accept that
Queer - have a non-binary concept of gender and orientation
Feminist - same as me but for your own reasons?
Good conversationalist - you thrive and bond on a good talk
Switch - you can lead, and be led, and require both.
Monogamous - you like to be the one single target of affection
Ambitious - you have desires, dreams and goals.
Sensitive - you can feel. You can also be hurt.
Creative - you're clever and have ideas about things.
Passionate - when you're into someone or something
Snuggler - you want and need close proximity and contact
The big spoon - :)