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51 • Flint, MI • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–54
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Dec 10, 2014
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body type
- Has a kid
So I came to Michigan, cut off my long hair and got back into what I knew which was big box retailers like Service Merchandise. I liked it and was good at it but didn't love it. Then at 36 I finally met someone, moved to flint, got married, had a daughter and a wonderful stepson. Then I found Real Estate. I now found something that I loved to do almost as much as music. 5 years ago my life took another turn with my divorce and the Real Estate market crashing on me. I picked up a second full time job in Retail. I do work a lot. I love my daughter, and she's a big part of my life and I have joint custody of her. I get along fine with my ex so there's no drama there. She is a good mother, but the marriage just didn't work out.
I enjoy many different things. I like to do anything outdoors. I like to go out to dinner, movies, theatre, concerts etc. I have a great sense of humor, but also have a serious side. I like to do things on a whim. I can also spend some quality time at home just watching a movie with that special someone who've I've yet to find. I am very honest, faithful, and have healthy morals. Family is very important to me. I love to spend time with my family, but I also need time for fun. I've been told that I have very diverse interests. I love music and singing and I am in a band again now, but mainly for my own enjoyment and to make some extra money. I'm not going to be touring anytime soon. lol I want to be here for my little princess. I love to play golf in the summer and hunt in the fall just to name a few. It would be great if I found a partner who shared my passions and participate with me or at least respect them. I would like my partner to also have things that they like to do outside of the home & family. I think it is healthy to have hobbies or interests or even spend time with your friends. I know this is not going over well with 98% of the women reading this. Maybe I am wrong, but I am at least being honest. I want someone I can adore and be best friends with. Do things together and separately. Someone I can talk to about anything.
My pictures are from of variety of time frames. I will put notes on them so you know which ones are recent and which are from the past. Although I think it will be obvious. lol
I try not to be a pessimist, but because I'm so picky; I'm beginning to think that I will never find that special someone. Now don't get me wrong. I'm not looking for perfection; that doesn't exist and I'm about as far from perfect as you can get. I have my faults. I'm looking for someone that's perfect for me. Someone I really truly connect with. Until then: I'm willing to just lead the life I'm living and do the best I can to raise my beautiful daughter.
I'd be surprised if anyone reads this thing all the way through (lol), but if you did; congratulations. If you decide to write me please be patient if I don't respond right away. I stay pretty busy.
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