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  • Ages 21–35
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Last online
Yesterday – 11:26pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Working on Post grad
Might want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
-“The cure for anything is salt water - sweat, tears, or the sea” - Isak Dinesen

I like to be outdoors to clear my thoughts; sitting on the water puts everything in perspective...


Former soldier turned medical student. It's been an interesting ride to be sure.

I've lived abroad a fair amount of time. Over that time I've learned that I feel most alive when I am out encountering new people, new cultures, new thoughts. I love traveling and seeing what life has to offer.

My work is important to me; I sacrificed a lot to get what I want and to be here. Consequently it means a lot to meet someone who is passionate about their ideas, helping others, or seeking some larger dream they put their effort into. For me, it is wanting to help others through medicine, to be a doctor who actually makes a difference.

When I'm not studying or working, I'm as happy going hiking in the mountains as much as I am having drinks on the beach. A quiet night watching movies or a road trip to go explore...I'm interested in living for the moment when it takes you.

Life is for living, not wondering at what could have happened.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hard question to answer; I try to be capable at lots of things rather than a master of a few.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I suppose you need to ask other people, eh?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A couple...

Far too many to list. I love reading. This has gotten to be a significant issue in that I can't find a place to *store* all my books.

O Brother Where Art Thou?
Little Miss Sunshine
Les Miserables
Men of Honor
12 Years a Slave
The Princess Bride
My Cousin Vinny
The Life Aquatic
The Big Lebowski
Lord of the Rings
When The Last Sword is Drawn
Pan's Labyrinth
Grandma's Boy
The Wind That Shakes the Barley
American History X
Remember the Titans
The Last Samurai
Akira Kurosawa movies
Le Samourai
The Good, The Bad, and the Ugly
Black Dynamite
Kingdom of Heaven
Django Unchained
The Count of Monte Cristo
The Nightmare Before Christmas
The Neverending Story

Most documentaries. I don't have that much time for tv though. When I get down, watching nature shows makes me smile inside for some reason.

Muse, Sigur Ros, Break of Reality, Led Zeppelin, Tool, CCR, Metallica, Counting Crows, Dawes, Neil Young, Tom Morello, The Chieftains, Johnny Cash, John Legend and The Roots, Foo Fighters, Flogging Molly, Radiohead, Temple of the Dog, Jackson Browne, The Wallflowers, Modest Mouse, Stevie Ray Vaughan, Nirvana, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Pink Floyd, Rolling Stones, Pearl Jam, Collective Soul, Michael Franti, Seether, Alice in Chains, Decemberists, Philip Wesley, Phantogram, Joywave, and most grunge/alt that comes on the radio.

Celtic music, blues/R&B, or classical when I want to chill out.

My grandmother's cooking (Hungarian)

Thai, Indian, Japanese, Korean, Ethiopian, Mediterranean/Middle Eastern

The best food is the food that's in front of you!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Natural beauty, traveling, pets/animals, learning, good friends, and family (though they can drive me crazy). Not necessarily in that order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life and where I want it to go. If you don't know who you are or what you are looking for, how do you know you're going the right way?

The meaning of life. What is the purpose of existence, what do people believe and why, etc?

Wishing I was out backpacking in Alaska, Acadia National Park, or the Kancamagus.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking for the blue bird of happiness
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I would rather admit it in private, of course.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're someone who is outgoing, cares about helping others, and you want to do things in life...not watch other people do it. You want to have a hell of a lot of fun with someone along the way.

You want to say hello?


Some ideas:

You see it as perfectly reasonable to say "@#$% it, we're buying cider doughnuts/maple sugar candy/homemade ice cream and taking a drive up to Kennebunkport/Boston/Portland/Montreal."

You would rather do something incredible on a weekend vs watching a ball game on tv.