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31 M Durham, NC

My Details

Last Online
Apr 21
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
"I’m comfortably asocial — a hermit in the middle of a large city, a pessimist if I’m not careful, a feminist, a Black, a former Baptist, an oil-and-water combination of ambition, laziness, insecurity, certainty and drive."
-Octavia Butler

Oh OkCupid and your limited box selection! Not bisexual (there are waaaay more than 2 sexes and even waaaaaaaay more than 2 genders), queer FTM dapper gent here. If you don'know, you betta' ask somebody! But don't ask me.
What I’m doing with my life
Studying public health. Finishing school (FINALLY!), plotting my escape, being awesome and sweet on people, playing rugby, conducting research.
I’m really good at
Making mixed CD's. Like crazy good!
The first things people usually notice about me
I wear a bow tie and suspenders pretty much errday. In a serious way.

I'm covered in tattoos. I'm working on being smothered, peppered and capped in tattoos.

Also, I probably don't hate you, it's just how INTJ's do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Wild Seed, Stone Butch Blues, Harry Potter, Flow Chronicles, The Marketplace Series, Story of O (Fuck Fifty Shades of Gray!), Valencia, Zami, Go Tell it on the Mountain, Taste of Power, The Bluest Eye, The Hunger Games, The Leatherman's Handbook, Even Cowgirls Get the Blues, Armistead Maupin's Tales of the City

Shows: Shows like Cats? or shows like The Walking Dead? Or perhaps Boardwalk Empire???

Super Troopers, Ghost Dog: The Way of the Samurai, Harlem Nights, Posse, Take This Waltz, Blue Valentine, Kill Bill, Anything by Wes Anderson, Three Burials of Melqiades Estrada, Django Unchained, By Hook or By Crook, School Daze, The Last Dragon

Too much to list, but I have been all over William Onyeabor and the new Beyonce (not proud of the latter).

Food: Vietnamese, Indian, Banana Pudding, and other Southern delicacies, fucking Banh Mi sandwiches
The six things I could never do without
1. My mom
2. Phone (yeah, I'm one those people)
3. Bay rum aftershave
4. At least one bow tie
5. Albuterol Sulfate
6. Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If I were a carpenter and you were a lady.....
How long do I have left to wear seersucker
If wishes and buts were candy and nuts
A tortilla doesn't make crumbs when you eat it........
Who's pit is that?!
Health disparities
On a typical Friday night I am
more than likely serving you ice cream.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a collection of what I call "inappropriate dad shorts" and I wear them.

I LOVE the show Girls.

Hunter green on the right
Red on the left
Gray on the right (but could rock on the left too)
Magenta on the right
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you wanna go to shows, you know which side your bread is buttered (on), you like 2-stepping, you would like to be the dandizette to my dandy and go places and or if you can contribute to making my last 2 months in Durham any better than the last 6 years. Give it a shot!

**Also, if you "like" me, do send me a message! I don't want to pay to see who to are. Time is of the essence, the moving countdown is rolling along.**