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30 Montclair, NJ Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–32
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:31pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Not at all
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey, I'm Dara!

I'm visiting Jersey until January 5th! Just spent 15 days in Santa Fe, NM.

I'm trying to figure out if I want to live in Santa Fe or Phoenix, AZ. Hit me up with opinions.

I'm straight-edge, which means I don't drink alcohol or do drugs. I'm also (mostly) vegan, which means I don't eat animal products. This means that you probably won't see me on a bar stool, chowing down on a hamburger anytime soon. (It's totally ok if you do it though.)

I just moved to Bisbee, AZ.from the east coast to take over my brother's lease until I move in the near future. It's a toss up between a few cities. Wherever I end up, I'm only looking for a long term relationship/platonic friends. Not really down for something causal.

ENFP, in terms of the Myers-Briggs personality test.

I am a level 2 Reiki practitioner. Ask me about it!

Talk to me about psychic shit.

Kik: Ravenous_Reader

Feel free to contact me, but please start more of a conversation; I thrive off of mental stimulation.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Smiling, waving, laughing and saying "It's a wonderful day, isn't it?" to strangers on the street.
Trying to be as compassionate as possible towards myself and other people on a daily basis. Trying to live in love instead of hate.
(Isn't that all that matters?)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting lost and not feeling anxious about it.
Making a cup of coffee that is the consistency of mud.
Talking to strangers on park benches.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"Why are you smiling?"

Also, people often come up to me to tell me I look like someone they know. Guess I have one of those faces.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Authors/Poets: Lynda Hull, Dave Eggers, The Dalai Lama, Ram Dass, Edgar Cayce, Jonathan Lethem, Eve Ensler, David Sedaris, David Small, Augusten Burroughs, Jack Kerouac, Allen Ginsburg, Gregory Corso, Saul Williams, Kim Addonizio, Dana Levin, William Carlos Williams, Sharon Olds, Matthew Dickman, Michael Dickman, Jonathan Safran Foer, Junot Diaz, Joseph Campbell.

Last Book read: Civilwarland in Bad Decline by George Saunders.
Currently reading: The Dragons of Eden: Speculations on the Evolution of Human Intelligence by Carl Sagan.

Music: Dead Prez, Frank Fairfield, Little Brother, John Lennon, Patti Smith, Nirvana, Wolves in the throne room, Hole, MC Yogi, Neutral Milk Hotel, Paper Bird, Scott Walker The Books, The Distillers, Furry Lewis, Leftover Crack, The Beatles, Led Zeppelin, Drake, Jay-Z, Sunn O))), Bessie Smith, Aesop Rock, Pretty Lights, Deaf Heaven, Atmosphere, Placebo, Elliott Smith, Marvin Gaye Tom Petty, Ani DiFranco, Hank III, Saul Williams, Wilco, Bob Dylan, Sublime, Juliette & The Licks, Phish, Neil Young, Kanye West, Radiohead, Elvis, Bassnectar, Russian Circles, Woody Guthrie.

Newest favorite find:
Jaki Byard

If you want to get on my good side, send me some youtube links of your favorite band/poetry. I'm on a constant search for new art stuff n' thangs.

Movies? Food? Not really my jam.
I have a netflix account that I rarely use. I'm all about reading and listening to the radio! NPR ish: This American Life, The Moth, Radiolab, etc.

Cherries, Pineapple, Kale, String beans, Korean sugar donuts filled with sweet red bean paste. If it's the spiciest thing you've ever put in your mouth, I'll love it. If you make me pancakes, I'll be your best friend forever and ever.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Oxygen
2. Water
3. Food
4. Shelter
5. Love/Compassion/Kindness
6. Intellectual stimulation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How people are what they want to become already. You just have to reach deep inside of yourself and pull that stuff to the surface!

How the universe works / my purpose and the course of life / how I can improve myself (mind-body-spirit.)

How strangers are just friends who haven't met yet.

Spirituality/Buddhism/New Age stuff.

Philosophy, art, creating pieces of writing, photography.

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
blasting this in a car somewhere:
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Since I'm bi-sexual and on OkCupid, I feel the need to say that I'm not into group sex. Please don't send me sexual messages on here. It's totally creepy.

I have a weakness for dancers and painters.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you want to.

Check out the list below for bonus points:

If you're from the northeast!

If you want a travel buddy.

If you're latin/hispanic, a redhead, or have a slender / athletic body type: I'll probably dig you.

If you're an artist of any sort. (I graduated with a B.A. in creative writing from an art school in Santa Fe.)

If you want to do something outside! (I was raised in a NJ state forest so nature and I are tight.)

If you think this video is pure gold:

If you're interested in the idea of letting go of ego in order to find
happiness/ living life one day at a time.