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31 San Diego, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:19pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Not at all
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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*Currently living in San Diego but I'm going to be in Vegas from 11/24-11/27. Show me around/let's grab a cup of coffee! I'm going to have a lot of down time so message me to kick it!*

"And now that you don't have to be perfect, you can be good."
-John Steinbeck, East of Eden


Vegan/Mystic/Deep thinker.

ENFP, in terms of the Myers-Briggs personality test.

Kik: Ravenous_Reader
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Smiling, waving, laughing and saying "It's a wonderful day, isn't it?" to strangers on the street.
Trying to be as compassionate as possible towards myself and other people on a daily basis. Trying to live in love instead of hate.
(Isn't that all that matters?)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being an extrovert.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm way too friendly for the east coast--from time living in the southwest--and way too intense for the west coast--from time living in the northeast--

that is to say: I'll take the shirt off my back and give it to anyone who needs it. My voice carries and I'm super sarcastic. :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors/Poets: Lynda Hull, Dave Eggers, The Dalai Lama, Ram Dass, Edgar Cayce, Jonathan Lethem, Eve Ensler, David Sedaris, David Small, Augusten Burroughs, Jack Kerouac, Allen Ginsburg, Gregory Corso, Saul Williams, Kim Addonizio, Dana Levin, William Carlos Williams, Sharon Olds, Matthew Dickman, George Saunders, Michael Dickman, Jonathan Safran Foer, Junot Diaz, Joseph Campbell.

Last Book read: The Dragons of Eden: Speculations on the Evolution of Human Intelligence by Carl Sagan.
Currently reading: The Two Hands of God (The Myths of Polarity) by Alan Watts

Music: Dead Prez, Frank Fairfield, Little Brother, John Lennon, Patti Smith, Nirvana, Wolves in the throne room, Minor Threat, Hole, MC Yogi, Neutral Milk Hotel, Paper Bird, Scott Walker The Books, The Distillers, Furry Lewis, Leftover Crack, The Beatles, Led Zeppelin, Drake, Jay-Z, Sunn O))), Bessie Smith, Aesop Rock, Pretty Lights, Deaf Heaven, Atmosphere, Placebo, Elliott Smith, Marvin Gaye Tom Petty, Hank III, Saul Williams, Wilco, Bob Dylan, Sublime, Juliette & The Licks, Phish, Neil Young, Kanye West, Radiohead, Elvis, Bassnectar, Russian Circles, Woody Guthrie, Jaki Byard.

Newest favorite find:
Crystal Castles
Dave Burbeck

If you want to get on my good side, send me some youtube links of your favorite band/poetry. I'm on a constant search for new art stuff n' thangs.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
All the basis survival stuff plus:
Intellectual stimulation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The Butterfly Effect

How the universe works / my purpose and the course of life / how I can improve myself (mind-body-spirit.)

Spirituality/Buddhism/New Age stuff.

Philosophy, art, creating pieces of writing, photography.

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Laughing with people/ Talking to the homeless in my neighborhood and handing out food.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't have a car.

I took care of my grandmother the last two years of her life. We were pretty close our entire lives. What I observed in the end was that all the egotistical stuff (accomplishments, material goods) faded away and didn't really matter. What remained, you ask? Love. In the end, love is what matters.
You should message me if
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you want to get some coffee/tea together.

If you're from the northeast, holla!