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30 F Tucson, AZ

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Last Online
Today – 8:03pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Not at all
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hey, I'm Dara!

I'm straight-edge, which means I don't drink alcohol or do drugs. I'm also (mostly) vegan, which means I don't eat animal products. This means that you probably won't see me on a bar stool, chowing down on a hamburger anytime soon. (It's totally ok if you do it though.)

I just moved to Bisbee from the east coast to take over my brother's lease until I move to Santa Fe, NM in late august/september. Looking to meet new people while I'm in Bisbee. But in the end, I'm hoping for a long-term relationship.

ENFP, in terms of the Myers-Briggs personality test.

I am a level 2 Reiki practitioner. Ask me about it!

Feel free to contact me, but please start more of a conversation; I thrive off of mental stimulation.
What I’m doing with my life
Smiling, waving, laughing and saying "It's a wonderful day, isn't it?" to strangers on the street.
Trying to be as compassionate as possible towards myself and other people on a daily basis. Trying to live in love instead of hate.
(Isn't that all that matters?)
I’m really good at
Getting lost and not feeling anxious about it.
Making a cup of coffee that is the consistency of mud.
Talking to strangers on park benches.
The first things people usually notice about me
"Why are you smiling?"

Also, people often come up to me to tell me I look like someone they know. Guess I have one of those faces.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors/Poets: Lynda Hull, Dave Eggers, The Dalai Lama, Ram Dass, Edgar Cayce, Jonathan Lethem, Eve Ensler, David Sedaris, David Small, Augusten Burroughs, Jack Kerouac, Allen Ginsburg, Gregory Corso, Saul Williams, Kim Addonizio, Dana Levin, William Carlos Williams, Sharon Olds, Matthew Dickman, Michael Dickman, Jonathan Safran Foer, Junot Diaz, Joseph Campbell.

Last Book read: Civilwarland in Bad Decline by George Saunders.
Currently reading: The Dragons of Eden: Speculations on the Evolution of Human Intelligence by Carl Sagan.

Music: Dead Prez, Frank Fairfield, Little Brother, John Lennon, Patti Smith, Nirvana, Wolves in the throne room, Hole, MC Yogi, Neutral Milk Hotel, Paper Bird, Scott Walker The Books, The Distillers, Furry Lewis, Leftover Crack, The Beatles, Led Zeppelin, Drake, Jay-Z, Sunn O))), Bessie Smith, Aesop Rock, Pretty Lights, Deaf Heaven, Atmosphere, Placebo, Elliott Smith, Marvin Gaye Tom Petty, Ani DiFranco, Hank III, Saul Williams, Wilco, Bob Dylan, Sublime, Juliette & The Licks, Phish, Neil Young, Kanye West, Radiohead, Elvis, Bassnectar, Russian Circles, Woody Guthrie.

Newest favorite find:
Jaki Byard

If you want to get on my good side, send me some youtube links of your favorite band/poetry. I'm on a constant search for new art stuff n' thangs.

Movies? Food? Not really my jam.
I have a netflix account that I rarely use. I'm all about reading and listening to the radio! NPR ish: This American Life, The Moth, Radiolab, etc.
Cherries, Pineapple, Kale, String beans, Korean sugar donuts filled with sweet red bean paste. If it's the spiciest thing you've ever put in your mouth, I'll love it. If you make me pancakes, I'll be your best friend forever and ever.
The six things I could never do without
1. Oxygen
2. Water
3. Food
4. Shelter
5. Love/Compassion/Kindness
6. Intellectual stimulation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How people are what they want to become already. You just have to reach deep inside of yourself and pull that stuff to the surface!

How the universe works / my purpose and the course of life / how I can improve myself (mind-body-spirit.)

How strangers are just friends who haven't met yet.

Spirituality/Buddhism/New Age stuff.

Philosophy, art, creating pieces of writing, photography.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Since I'm bi-sexual and on OkCupid, I feel the need to say that I'm not into group sex. Please don't send me a sexual messages on here. It's totally creepy.

I don't have a car.

I'm super stoked to be living in the Southwest again where avocados are 25 cents each. (All the people from the Northeast reading this are smiling too.)
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 25–32
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you're from the east coast!

If you're latin/hispanic, a redhead, or have a slender / athletic body type: I'll probably dig you.

If you're an artist of any sort. (I graduated with a B.A. in creative writing from an art school in Santa Fe.)

If you want to do something outside! (I was raised in a NJ state forest so nature and I are tight.)

If you think this video is pure gold:

If you're interested in the idea of letting go of ego in order to find
happiness/ living life one day at a time.