I am your, Yang, and your are my Ying.
My Self-Summary
Well......All I can say about myself is that Ive never met anyone
quite like me....until recently.
I guess Im a bit of a dark horse, certainly the black sheep of my
family and I live life as I find it. But I always want more
excitement and more adventures. I travelled quite alot over the
years and lived in many different countries. In fact, I just
returned from 2 years living in Texas.
But Im not adverse to enjoying some quiet time, enjoying the
company of good friends who are a little querky like me. I love a
good sense of humour....it can cure so many of todays troubles. I
love the intimacy of a relationship....emotional, mental and
physical. And when I find that 'perfect' woman for me.......I'm
ready to do whatever I can to be together forever (for me, Love is
ever-lasting, eternal)
What I’m doing with my life
Sadly...at the moment, I have had to return from Texas to look
after my very sick parents. Theyre not as young as they used to
be.....but who is....and they cant cope on their own. So, Im doing
the dutiful son thing.
And sadly, my father passed away last week...so at this time, I
have so much to arrange.....and of course, do all I can to ensure
my mother is financially, emotionally and physically taken care
of.
Where my life goes from here.....I have absolutely no idea. I dont
see that as a bad thing as I love adventures, exploring new things
and testing myself in unusual situations.
Im looking forward to finding these adventures with someone very
special by my side......(like you). Whether that be travelling or
in a steady, at-home situation. Someone to confide in and share the
memories when we're old(er).....lol.
For the right woman....I would travel to the ends of the Earth.
I’m really good at
Im good at painting....but Ive been an artist ever since I was old
enough to hold a paint brush. I like most forms of creative
expression.
Im good and putting people at their ease...and communicating with
them. I think Im a very empathic person and can usually see a
situation from anothers point of view and I dont criticise people
for daring to be different.
Im also very romantic.....Love and Romance is what life is all
about.
I'd like to say that Im really good at everything I do ( but I
wont.....actually, yes, I will, why not). After all, if something
is worth doing, isnt if worth doing to the best of your
ability.....whether its making a cup of tea.....or making love.
Otherwise, why bother. It only takes a little extra effort to do
something well. And she'll appreciate the extra effort.
Im a Libran.....and in ever respect, I am a Libran. Loving, giving,
well-balanced, harmonious, except when my football team
lose.......( but I love to love my sweetheart)
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes. They give everything away about me. Look deep into my eyes
and you'll know all you need to know.
If someone interests me, they'll always notice my interest in them,
which is always sincere. I show them the respect they deserve and
take an interest in what they have to say.....or teach me.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Favourite books.....The Karma Sutra (ok, that was a joke, kind
of....lol) but, anything by Herman Hesse and Marion Zimmer Bradley.
I also love greek (ancient) tradgedies.....such as the Iliad. I
have also read Dante Divine Comedy at least three times. I just
wish I had more time to read.
I dont have a favourite movie but I do like science Fiction and
thrilers. As a man, I guess I also like action films. But really,
anything that makes you think, I can watch.
Again, I dont really have favourite music. I like all music....it
just depends what mood Im in at any time. But I love romantic
music.....the sort you'll listen to, curled up with the one you
love.
Whatever she likes.....I'll love to.
Food....I love Italian and French. I dont mind Chinese. And even
ocassionally Indian....but not so spicy that you cant taste what
youre eating.
But if my partner loves something, I will love it too, because we
will be two peas from the same pod.
The six things I could never do without
I could never do without.... LOVE in my life. Its why we humans are
here. To find it, water it and watch it grow and mature into
something truly beautiful. And I shallnt be embarassed to say, I
love sex.....or rather, making love to that special lady in my
life.
I could never do without.... my ART. Painting for me is not a
hobby...its a way of life.
I could never do without...a COMPUTER, sadly. I know technology has
come to rule our lives but a computer to me is access to the rest
of the world.
I could never do without...my PASSPORT. You just never know when a
foreign country comes calling for you to visit. I love
travelling.
I could never do without....a PEN and PAPER. I often have thoughts
which simply need to be written down. Ideas can come at any
moment.
I could never do without a few POUNDS in my pocket, so if ever I
feel the need to go somewhere, I can.
And finally, I could never do without 'you' in my life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Who I am. Where I am. Why I am. What I am.
Other than that....I try not to think too much....lol
Well, I do think about the love of my life, alot. And making her
smile.
On a typical Friday night I am
I havent had a typical friday night in over 5 years. But back in
the days when I did.....it was often like a typical Thursday night.
And come to think of it.....much like a typical Tuesday, Monday,
Sunday and Saturday night too. Oh, I forgot about Wednesday
nights......what did I do Wednesday nights? I cant remember.
But I do like to go out with friends whatever the night.
Im just as comfortable sitting at home watching tv, especially with
someone special beside me. Maybe have a Chinese take-away and a
bottle of wine or two.
Basically, Im flexible and if an opportunity arises to do something
unusual....Im usually the first to volunteer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
Im not a private person. Im not ashamed of anything Ive done in my
past...and dont expect to be in the future either. I have no
secrets....ask me a question and I wont lie.
Anyway, Im terrible at lying. I can never remember what I said. So
I try to tell the truth.
Just dont ask me if your butt looks big in that tight skimpy dress
though.....lol.
But if you want to ask me anything private....youre more than
welcome to.....I rarely get embarrased.
You should message me if
If you think we may be compatable. If you have a weird and querky
sense of humour.....without being offensive to those less
fortunate, shorter, larger, more folically challenged, or of a
different race or religion.
If you'd like to hear how I had to escape off a Caribbean Island or
nearly got shot in Isreal....how I managed to evade the army during
a curfew in Istanbul or got chatted up by a 70 year old Frenchman
in Paris.....then message me.
And if you think we could possibly have something in common....I'd
love to hear from you.