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Darenihi

26 / M / straight / Single

Helsinki, Finland

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Aries
Education
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), Finnish (Fluently)

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I am funny, kind, and lost....

My Self-Summary

I'm an easygoing nutcase always looking for something else. I tend to do things my way, but still take others into consideration. I don't bend when ordered, but if asked, I might. I'm a caring, funny personality who considers his word as his bond, no exceptions. There's much more to me than meets the eye. Two sides of the coin. I'm slightly introverted and thus keep to myself. Plus I love to play with my imagination and think about things. Worldly possessions mean little to me. I keep everything in order. I enjoy dry, sarcastic humor.

What I’m doing with my life

Not that much, really. It's kind of just hanging in there, in the background. I dust it off every once and awhile to make sure it's still there. I'm a working stiff. I'm gathering pieces of eight to fund my own pirate ship. Plundering awaits!! Seriously, though, I'm looking for someone (if that's something one can do with one's life!!). Besides all that, I write, read, do sports, ice hockey, RPG's, acting, videogames. But that's the point. I don't seem to do anything important with it.

I’m really good at

Writing, acting. I'm "really good at" breaking my back for anyone who needs help. And a talker who can be entertaining. You should see me in action. Keeping my word is something I'm good at. Not to mention my accident prone ways - I can be a walking disaster. Good listener who doesn't judge people, as I know that every coin has a flipside to it.

The first things people usually notice about me

Eyes. Yes, I'm one of those who can keep a long eye contact. When someone gets me to smile, that's usually the thing they claim to have noticed first. Some say I look like I've been carved from stone ;)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Many to list. I like all kinds of movies, but have this wierd tendency to be able to watch a movie only once. I enjoy characters in books / movies more than the story. I should read more, I'll admit that one. And as for the food... where? ;) My favorite tv shows would include The Shield, Sopranos, Babylon 5, Futurama, Family Guy, American Dad (yes, I love crazy cartoons), Californication... then again, I don't watch tv that much. I also keep a three feet pole distance from renovating / food / reality shows (excluding Survivor and Hell's Kitchen). Especially BB.

The six things I could never do without

Besides air to breath, I can't think of anything right now. Yeah, I know that people always list family + friends, their pets, phones, but I'll just stick with my air for now. I need food too. Does that count? Freedom, for sure, but around here, that's a given. And rain. Love the rain. It makes most of the people run for cover ;) So I guess there are things that I wouldn't like to be without. Huh. Go figure.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Things. From the soul life of an ant to the big mystery of why things happen. Again, like I said, there's a little philosopher living inside of me. I'm one of those pesky people who analyse things, people and random events. I'm also thinking how much better I would have suited into the medevil China. I would have made a kick-ass servant who would have jumped infront of an arrow meant for the King / Master / pet bull named Charlie ;) And I'm always running around different poem / article / book ideas in my head. All the time.

On a typical Friday night I am

Relaxing, or at least trying to. Maybe jump into a sauna. Lay on the bed and watch something funny. I'm not much of a bar hopper, as I don't really enjoy having to yell out to people over the music... if there's company to go, then, yes. I'm a freaking old soul, that's what it is. I can visit OkCupid on a Friday night and search for you ;)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

People see me as this great person who's got everything in control, who always has the right lines and everything just happens to go his way. I'll admit - it's not like that. And that I'm only smiling on that profile picture because it's said that smiling people are more magnetic. Normally, real smiles don't come easily for me.

You should message me if

You should message me. Without the "if"-part. Come in as you are and we'll go from there - however - you should be smoke-free, female, around ages from 20 to 32, and it would help a lot if you would have something to say. If your aim is to send just a few messages and then disappear, do not bother, if I may be blunt. Otherwise, feel free to spook me out.