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49 • San Francisco, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 39–55
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Mar 15
- Hispanic / Latin, White
- 5′ 5″ (1.65m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Sales / Marketing
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
Fun: Chasing lobsters on the kitchen floor looks like fun to me. I do my best dancing in the kitchen while cooking whole food and listening to Pandora. No processed food, please. Dark chocolate and fruit for dessert. Light to medium-bodied reds or bubbly. Lots of water.
Loving: Having a go-to partner to talk about everything is home as in Home Sweet Home.
Supportive 24x7: Following my partner out of bed because he has insomnia is necessary. Why wouldn’t I? Something is on his mind. Or he could be sleepwalking and may need to be guided back.
Smart: Achieving most things ideal require some homework and hard work. I hope to co-design a satisfying and secure relationship.
Deep Listener: I'm working on how to be more patient with the process of getting to know someone. Communicating and miscommunicating to experience understanding and meaning are valuable to me. Making up is underrated.
Lasting: Being courageous to speak honestly and calm in the face of adversity is a Potent Personality with two capital “P's.” Although I was married young and am divorced, I value long-term relationships.
Passionate: Identifying shared values, interests, and passions are a must. What else is there?
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