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49 San Francisco, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 39–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 15
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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As an aspiring writer, scenes from movies help me define what I want from a real long-term relationship and partner. Oh, experience helps a lot, too.:

Fun: Chasing lobsters on the kitchen floor looks like fun to me. I do my best dancing in the kitchen while cooking whole food and listening to Pandora. No processed food, please. Dark chocolate and fruit for dessert. Light to medium-bodied reds or bubbly. Lots of water.

Loving: Having a go-to partner to talk about everything is home as in Home Sweet Home.

Supportive 24x7: Following my partner out of bed because he has insomnia is necessary. Why wouldn’t I? Something is on his mind. Or he could be sleepwalking and may need to be guided back.

Smart: Achieving most things ideal require some homework and hard work. I hope to co-design a satisfying and secure relationship.

Deep Listener: I'm working on how to be more patient with the process of getting to know someone. Communicating and miscommunicating to experience understanding and meaning are valuable to me. Making up is underrated.

Lasting: Being courageous to speak honestly and calm in the face of adversity is a Potent Personality with two capital “P's.” Although I was married young and am divorced, I value long-term relationships.

Passionate: Identifying shared values, interests, and passions are a must. What else is there?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying most everyone and everything in it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, nurturing, and a last minute adventure.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, curiosity, and that I'm more shy than I appear.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Lots to list here. Big fan of West Wing, The Wire, Downton Abbey, and all things well written. Like to explore all music. Love whole food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, expression, art (esp. photography and music), books, and chocolate.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Language, psyche maps, art, being outdoors, and men who make me laugh.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Well, private is private.
You should message me if
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You think that we'll have fun.