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33 San Jose, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:19pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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I just moved from Hawaii for a job different from my education and experience. I am learning the Bay Area and driving further than I ever imagined coming from Hawaii (and 3 interstate freeways that do not interconnect the state or connect the state to any other states). I am a hard worker looking for a good reason to play hookie once in a while and a great partner to share triumphs, talents, and tough times.
What I’m doing with my life
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Continuing a journey that started 5 years ago when I applied for my current position, taking me to Washington State, Maui, Oahu, Maryland, and now San Jose. I've made great friends and the journey has been great.

Currently, I'm focusing on learning my new job, not doing anything stupid, and making healthier choices. I even stumbled into church without bursting into flames. I'm not sure if I'm quite ready for church. We'll see. Right now it's more of an intellectual endeavor.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am good at sarcasm and breaking electronic devices with my mere presence. But those are free services to all. I'm also good at cooking, sight-seeing (since I'm new to the area), volleyball, fixing/projects/tinkering around the house, and logically working through friend's problems to develop a solution.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My versatile attire and/or facial features? I have no idea. People have asked me if I am Mexican, Native American, Eskimo, Chinese, and Korean.

They usually don't see my horizontal earlobes. Under Japanese folkore, my earlobes will catch the falling gold and I will be rich. I'm still waiting for it to rain gold.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like deep, thought-provoking movies that have a lot of guns and explosions. For example, Bad Boys, Transformers (all), and Batman: The Dark Knight. To quote some of my favorite movie lines: "Fate rarely calls upon us at a moment of our choosing" - Optimus Prime. It has had some personal relevance in some recent chapters of my life. Or there's "How about a magic trick? I'm going to make the pencil dissapear. Ta da!" - Joker. I mean seriously, where does the pencil go? See! So many lessons to be learned. Plus, there's big explosions. But in all seriousness, I'm also a sucker for some romantic comedies, especially those that analyze or comment on the human condition. My favorite is Love Actually.

Regarding books, I enjoy The Power of One - Very inspirational reading for me. Andromeda Strain, Congo and other Michael Crichton books got me into reading. But right now, I read too much at work and have taken to picture books and cook books. Much more fulfilling.

Music - all kinds of contemporary music, including the 90's to present. Its amazing how much music can change my mood.

Food - lobster (most seafood), squid luau, goteberg sausage, ribeye, portuguese bean soup, ahi poke, chicharon, bacon (I want to try bacon tempura!), honey pork chops, pigs in a blanket (much better than what you're thinking-hotdog stuffed w/cheese, wrapped in bacon, baked in bbq sauce),
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Six things I need are:

1) Friends who are there for me and tell it to me straight;
2) Family who are like friends but didnt have a choice;
3) Phone to stay in touch with the people important to me and assist with planning fun things;
4) Flashlight for its fancy retina searing brightness to see what's lurking in the dark;
5) Finances because let's be honest, without finances, living becomes a lot more difficult;
6) Fun - what's the point of living without having fun with your friends and family, laughing to your heart's content, and eating until you're tired (it's a Hawaii thing);

7) Alliteration.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm usually thinking about whatever is going on in my life. Sometimes its work, sometimes its play, sometimes its "what am I having for lunch?" Regardless, I consider both sides of the coin, even the circumfrence.

If I'm driving its usually "Why do drivers in the passing lane insist on going the same speed as drivers in the other lane?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I enjoy seeing friends and family, or seeing the occasional movie. Occasionally, I'm at work because I want to enjoy my weekend and not bring work home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Seriously, an oxymoron. You can pick the one you like most:

The sweetest thing I ever saw was my friend's 18 month year old son stumble toward her and give her a hug after we got back from a work trip.

The greatest joy I have known is seeing people close to me enjoying themselves because of something I have done for them.

The dumbest thing I have done is run toward a burning car to help a crackhead escape the flames.
You should message me if
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If you're interested in irreverent humor, ok with someone who's not into the bar/club scene (lounges with good food are cool), can live with a recovering attorney.

Or you're interested in buying the Brooklyn Bridge I'm selling.