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DarkDesires4Us

48 / M / bisexual / Seeing someone

San Diego, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am here, there, and gone.

My Self-Summary

Here to take tests, and to test... myself... my limits... the waters... Not too sure that I really would be interested in much more right now.

What I’m doing with my life

I am currently on a road of re-defining myself, and re-awakenings...

I’m really good at

Pushing thru limits, knot work, saying "yes, you do". Kissing with my whole being.

The first things people usually notice about me

That I do actually have clothes on.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I haven't tried to tackle this one yet, because any of those categories could nearly be a book of their own! :) I will put things down here at random times, just to try to give me time for some of the other things happening on the net!

OK, Let's put SOMETHING here:

Music: wow… k, here goes. Classical, ragtime, jazz, rock’n’roll, rock, swing, metal, alternative, industrial, trance, fusion of most types, world beat, new age, etc, etc… pretty much, any music works… Country&Western gets old fast, but it can be fun to dance to (Hey, even WHITE PEOPLE can do that!), and it’s very rare for me to find rap or hip-hop that I can listen to for very long… but anything that has a beat can be forgiven and even enjoyed.

Favorites: Oingo Boingo (So much so that it was my first tattoo, years before the rest), Depeche Mode, The Cure, Yes, Queen, The Beatles, Incubus, NIN, Ministry, Nekromantix, Gogol Bordello, Crosby,Stills,Nash and/or Young, Kansas, Chicago, Type O Negative, Micheal Oldfield, Meatloaf, Phillip Glass, Delirium, Supertramp, Dead Can Dance, Crash Test Dummies, Devo, Bowie, Emerson,Lake&Palmer, Black Sabbath, Metallica, Steely Dan, Alice Cooper, Pink FloydThey Might Be Giants, B52’s, Bjork, Manhattan Transfer, etc….

The six things I could never do without

An open-minded Lover that is as adventurous as I am.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

She already knows....

On a typical Friday night I am

Waiting for Saturday Night... Prepping toys and plans...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Too much for the gen pop

You should message me if

You think you know who I am.