That's right. Blunt, straight forward, truthful. I know many women seeing this will think, "Just another jerk trying to get a little extra". To that I say, "Don't criticize a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes".
I have done my part. Tried my best. I have not succeeded. I don't want to change my situation, just add to it.
Something tells me there are woman out there in the same situation. This is an opportunity for you to do something about it. I am not in any hurry. We can get to know each other via email, phone, what ever you are comfortable with. At what ever pace you are comfortable with.