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42 San Jose, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 34-51
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
A little extra
Special Diet
Other and it’s important
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am polyamorous/ non-monagomous. I have a fabulous boyfriend that I met on OKC (hedonismforme) and he is my first priority. I like talking to authentic people and do meet people if there is chemistry. We will need to exchange a few messages for me to figure out if the sparks may fly!

I'm especially looking for a woman who doesn't mind the bisexual thing. I'm craving a heart connection with a strong, funny, kind, independent female.

The other sections may seem light on information. I am on the shy side (no joke!) and will reveal more of myself as I get to know you. Then I'm an open book.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Deepening my spiritual practice. Exploring and learning on many different levels. Stepping outside of my comfort zone. My current experiment - what if I said "yes" instead of "no"? What might happen? Life happens!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, learning, being open, and interacting with fascinating people. When I'm particularly playful, I'm very good at making people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile. I'll be smiling when I meet you. I smile when I'm happy (of course) and when I'm nervous.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books - I'll read just about anything. Some favorites: White Oleander, Like Water for Chocolate, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Jane Eyre, Illusions: Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah
TV/ Movies -Dr. Who is my newest obsession (thanks to Netflix!), The Matrix Trilogy, Ghost World, Sucker Punch, The Nines, Idiocracy
Music - I LOVE music, love hearing it live. All-time favorite - Depeche Mode. A very short list of favorites would include: AWOLNATION, Switchblade Symphony, Florence + the Machine, Dead Can Dance, NIN, Soulsavers.
Food - I'm not eating much meat these days, but when I indulge seafood is great. Especially sushi.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Sex, Intimacy and everything in between
2. Phone
3. Laptop, Internet
4. iPod
5. Books of any kind/ Kindle
6. Car
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ways I can learn, grow and better myself. I crave experiences and have accepted the challenge to live outside of my comfort zone.
The beauty of ropes and collars.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
When I'm not with my boyfriend I am open to anything! Hanging out with friends where I can socialize and laugh. I can just as easily relax at home with a book, a movie, my iPod or those who make my heart sing.
When the weather is nice you may also find me around a campfire having a great time with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a very dirty mind and I have enjoyed where it has taken me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...You have a profile picture.
...We have a Match % of 85 or greater.
...You don't mind a woman who is direct and blunt at times.
...You don't mind potentially receiving responses that become 5 paragraph essays. Well, not quite that long, but I can be wordy. Hope you like to read.
Just to keep you on your toes I may give you a short response that may or may not make sense to you.
... You are someone who is being the best You that you can be, no matter how you choose to identify yourself, who welcomes a little exploration. Help me with this comfort zone thing!