I am polyamorous/ non-monagomous. I have a fabulous boyfriend that I met on OKC (hedonismforme) and he is my first priority. I like talking to authentic people and do meet people if there is chemistry. We will need to exchange a few messages for me to figure out if the sparks may fly!
I'm especially looking for a woman who doesn't mind the bisexual thing. I'm craving a heart connection with a strong, funny, kind, independent female.
Yes, I am interested in connecting with men as well.
The other sections may seem light on information. I am on the shy side (no joke!) and will reveal more of myself as I get to know you. Then I'm an open book.
What I’m doing with my life
Deepening my spiritual practice. Exploring and learning on many
different levels. Stepping outside of my comfort zone. My current
experiment - what if I said "yes" instead of "no"? What might
happen? Life happens!
I’m really good at
Listening, learning, being open, and interacting with fascinating people. When I'm particularly playful, I'm very good at making people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile. I'll be smiling when I meet you. I smile when I'm happy
(of course) and when I'm nervous.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - I'll read just about anything. Some favorites: White
Oleander, Like Water for Chocolate, Hitchhiker's Guide to the
Galaxy, Jane Eyre, Illusions: Adventures of a Reluctant
TV/ Movies -Dr. Who is my newest obsession (thanks to Netflix!),
The Matrix Trilogy, Ghost World, Sucker Punch, The Nines,
Music - I LOVE music, love hearing it live. All-time favorite -
Depeche Mode. A very short list of favorites would include:
AWOLNATION, Switchblade Symphony, Florence + the Machine, Dead Can
Dance, NIN, Soulsavers.
Food - I'm not eating much meat these days, but when I indulge
seafood is great. Especially sushi.
The six things I could never do without
1. Sex, Intimacy and everything in between
3. Laptop, Internet
5. Books of any kind/ Kindle
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Ways I can learn, grow and better myself. I crave experiences and have accepted the challenge to live outside of my comfort zone.
The beauty of ropes and collars.
On a typical Friday night I am
When I'm not with my boyfriend I am open to anything! Hanging out
with friends where I can socialize and laugh. I can just as easily
relax at home with a book, a movie, my iPod or those who make my
When the weather is nice you may also find me around a campfire
having a great time with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a very dirty mind and I have enjoyed where it has taken me.
You should message me if
...You have a profile picture.
...We have a Match % of 85 or greater.
...You don't mind a woman who is direct and blunt at times.
...You don't mind potentially receiving responses that become 5 paragraph essays. Well, not quite that long, but I can be wordy. Hope you like to read.
Just to keep you on your toes I may give you a short response that may or may not make sense to you.
... You are someone who is being the best You that you can be, no matter how you choose to identify yourself, who welcomes a little exploration. Help me with this comfort zone thing!