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25 Aachen, Germany Androgynous, Genderfluid, Genderqueer

Androgynous, Genderfluid, Genderqueer

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 19–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Apr 17
Bisexual, Pansexual
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Working on university
Seeing Someone
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), German (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I promise, my dear profile page, I will take the time to work on you *crosses fingers*.
What I’m doing with my life
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I wish I could say I chased my dreams, but I'm merely just trying.
Still it's getting better all the time and maybe one day my desire to be alive will get me to a place where it's nice to stay. Who knows?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Tech stuff, thinking, solving problems. These are the things that always came natural to me. So, it's really no surprise that over the years I've been into many different things, from electronics, to programming, Linux, math and of course, my old love, physics.
If that makes me seem to be some kind of one sided person, keep in mind that it's just the stuff that I'm kinda good at and not everything that I do - or try to do :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm an introverted, shy guy, somewhat awkward, somewhat genderfluid, who might get silly from time to time :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music is what keeps life going through my veins and what makes my heart beat. If it wasn't for music, I honestly can say, I'd be dead by now.
To give you some idea of the things that I like, and thus by proxy what kind of person I am, here are names that just spring to my mind (in no particular order):
The Beatles, The Smiths, Piano Magic, Franz Schubert, Dark Sanctuary, Air, Papercut, Reinhard Mey, George Harrison, John Lennon, Zupfgeigenhansel, Alcest, Faun, Eric Clapton, Blackmore's Night, Yann Tiersen, Freiburger Spielleyt, Dhalia's Lane / Wild Silk, Tenhi, Tangerine Dream, Carbon Based Lifeforms, Welle: Erdball, Qntal, Bassic, Symphony of Science ....

Shows, Movies? Ahh, uhmm ... Carl Sagan's Cosmos, Contact, Star Trek TNG / Voyager, Star Gate and of course the old Star Wars movies. But that's about it. I don't watch TV and I never bothered much for movies beyond good old Scifi :/

Books? Uhmm, do textbooks count? I love reading textbooks :3
No? Mhh, then... I got some Oscar Wilde recently.

Games. I don't know why in this day and age the OkC people didn't think about that category. They really should have.
My favourites are the Legend Of Zelda games, with Ocarina Of Time at the very top, of course, and Pokemon, the 2nd generation. Then good old strategy games that you can play with / against human friends, like Age Of Empires 2. Simulation games such as SimCity4, Industrie Gigant. Shooterwise I'm stuck with Bf1942, don't really care much for shooter games anymore. And consoles / Nintendo. I have a ton of N64 and SNES games. Ohhh the memories =)
Today I mostly get Indie games when they are on sale.
But now, I just do have to admit that I don't really play that much games anymore than I used to as a kid. There are so many more exciting things in life that eat up my time and occupy my thoughts. Gaming is just for those times when I feel down and out. However, it does say something about my taste, and maybe who I am, and that's why I'm telling you.
The six things I could never do without
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Music, Music, Music, Music, Music, Music.

I lived without love for too long now. I cannot claim to never make it without anymore.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
irrelevant stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing guitar at home, all alone.

I'd need you to take me out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I want to be loved, just like everybody else does.

Although I may be considered an adult by now (*sighs*) I still love playing Pokemon once in a while :3

I like furry art.

Also, some folks said I'm not so much of a man. Boy, what did they know.
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