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Ravenclaw4Hire

25 Gainesville, FL Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 12:10pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 4″ (1.94m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Student
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Status
Single
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Not really sure why I'm trying this again. I guess I'm just stubborn and persistent. I just know there's somebody out there who I can click with and come out with at least a really awesome friend and it's going to take saying the right thing at the right time to kick that off. Just a little about me, I'm really fond of reading, writing, videogames, and eating just about any kind of food you can think of (my favorite being Padd Thai and Sushi.)

I am divorced, thankfully with no kids. It was a stupid thing as it was my first (and only) relationship and I was of the mindset that I was lucky just to be in a relationship and I was afraid of being alone forever if I blew it with her, but we just never connected on any level or shared any interests, so it ended just shy of 5 years. Unfortunately, because of the divorce, I ended up taking on all of her incurred debt along with my own expenses as a bargain in exchange for a simple attorney-less divorce procedure, so I'm currently living with my parents until I can I can resolve the issue and find a roommate or get my own place again. I'm working a full time job in the mornings and am about to start a part-time job with extremely flexible and lenient hours to do so.

I'm certainly not flawless by any means. I'm unbelievably meek and timid, I'm definitely not some gorgeous underwear model, and I'm not nearly as active and sociable as I would like to be. I always have something that needs improving and I'm willing to work on it when I have the incentive and the drive to push forward.

Despite my shy nature, I do open up around people I'm familiar with and at that point all bets are off. I call it as I see it and I can take any level of punishment you can dish out to me. I challenge everybody I meet to try and offend me and nobody has ever been successful to date. I would like to thank my joking and controversial nature for that. I love cussing, I love dark humour, & I love off-color jokes, puns, and disgusting limericks.

According to the site posted below, I rate as an INFJ in the Myers Briggs Personality test. According to it:

"INFJs are gentle, caring, complex and highly intuitive individuals. Artistic and creative, they live in a world of hidden meanings and possibilities. Only one percent of the population has an INFJ Personality Type, making it the most rare of all the types.

The INFJ is as genuinely warm as they are complex. INFJs hold a special place in the heart of people who they are close to, who are able to see their special gifts and depth of caring. INFJs are concerned for people's feelings, and try to be gentle to avoid hurting anyone. They are very sensitive to conflict, and cannot tolerate it very well. Situations which are charged with conflict may drive the normally peaceful INFJ into a state of agitation or charged anger. They may tend to internalize conflict into their bodies, and experience health problems when under a lot of stress."
http://www.personalitypage.com/INFJ.html
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now I'm just trying to keep busy and work myself out of the hole that my divorce left me in. This involves busting my ass at work and distracting myself from the world long enough that I can pay off my debt, recover my credit score, and strive to have my own home again. I had my own apartment once and if you think living with your parents sucks, try being forced to move in with them again after admitting to yourself that you fucked up your own life. Some nights are easier than other, but it's hard not to want to kill myself out of sheer depression sometimes. That's where the self-distraction comes in handy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
writing. Writing and creating my own fictitious worlds is my biggest passion and I love the creations I come up with and the inspirations that I draw them from.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably that I can be a bit of a stubborn pain in the ass, which is weird since I sincerely try not to be. I get into a bi-polar mindset of self-loathing and my mood really hurts my ability to know and meet new people. A large part of that is because of my frustration toward being terrible at meeting new people. It's a vicious cycle.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Ender's Game, Harry Potter, and Jurassic Park are my favorite book series of all time, though I try to read a wide variety of different series.

Movies: I love all of the Marvel Movies, the Harry Potter Movies, and a lot of Chick Flicks and Sci-Fi films that touch on controversial and philosophical issues. My favorite movies are Jurassic Park, Memoirs of A Geisha, Perks of Being A Wallflower, Easy A, and Riddick.

Shows: Really big Walking Dead fan. Also love New Girl, Last Man Standing, Defiance, & Breaking Bad, The Misfits, & Agents of SHIELD. I also love Anime like Dragonball, Trigun, Highschool DXD, and Deathnote. Even older American Cartoons like Courage the Cowardly Dog, Samurai Jack, Megas XLR, and Reboot were amazing.

Music: I love most modern rock and classic metal, though I really have a thing for 90's and 00's rock lately. My favorite artists at the moment are Of Mice & Men, Breaking Benjamin, Serj Tankian, Thousand Foot Krutch, and Skillet (whom I can't believe I only just discovered a few months ago!)

Food: Asian food. Live it. Like it. Love it. If you promise me Padd Thai or Japanese Sushi, I'll love you forever :D (Good sushi, not the stuff you get at a grocery store or chinese buffet.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coca-Cola
Hugs
Science Fiction
Sushi
Air Conditioning
Incense sticks (or other scented products)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I'm so awkward around other people and why I can't seem to get rid of the timidness. Also spend a lot of time worrying about the state of the world and the things we could do to improve it (I tend to be a fairly controversial individual.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably on the internet browsing 9Gag or some forum or on my Xbox chatting with one of the few friends I still speak to. Wishing I had somebody to go out to dinner with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like it when women have the courage to make the first move. Messaging first, asking out on a date, and even marriage proposal isn't something that should always be left to the guy, especially since a lot of guys like myself are completely clueless and terrible at seeing the signs (I imagine there are 2 or 3 girls I could've asked out in my lifetime who would've said yes, but I didn't and the opportunity passed.)
You should message me if
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Technically I think everybody should message me. You never know who you'll find on the other end of the keyboard and no profile can truly convey one's personality and nature. I suppose it's fair to put some stipulations on it, though.

I probably won't get along with anybody who's a huge sports fan as I have no interest in any sporting events and I'm more likely to get along with somebody who enjoys playing videogames, though it doesn't rule you out if you don't.

I realize my profile says I'm seeking short or long-term relationships, but that's not entirely true. I'm not willing to rule out the possibility if I'm really comfortable around somebody, but I just don't think I'm fit for a relationship right now with my self-esteem and confidence issues. I don't know if I'll ever trust myself to be in a relationship again and I'm afraid I'll only end up hurting you or wasting your time if I try to be anything more than a friend right now.