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DarkShaman

39 / M / straight / Available

Everett, Washington

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 7" (2.00m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Russian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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Your Notes

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I am tall, erudite, and too serious.

My Self-Summary

My wife thinks I'm a snob for attempting to order a good wine when we go out to dinner - I truly don't know what I'm doing, but I like experimenting. I work too much for a cell phone company...I do like my job, just not the hours. We're essentially polyamorous, and getting more involved in the poly community here in Seattle.

Between work, kids, wife and home, I don't have massive amounts of spare time. What I do have, I tend to spend reading for pleasure, working out, or canoeing...or playing volleyball, since I just got hooked up with a group that meets to play regularly

What I’m doing with my life

Working, making a good home for my (very extensive and extended) family

I’m really good at

Taking care of those I love

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm taller than they are, and have longer hair (what's left of it ;)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

A) Song of Ice and Fire, Dune, Songmaster, Stranger in a Strange Land. Those four are my favorites, but I'm almost always in the middle of reading 3-5 books...we could start a pretty decent bookstore with all the books we've got in the house, ranging from all kinds of fiction to most of our collective school books to self-improvement and religions of all sorts. I feel like I should add more here, but don't want to spend all night. Some favorite authors are Orson Scott Card, Laurell Hamilton, Heinlein, Spider Robinson and Dick Francis.

B) Grosse Point Blank, Princess Bride, Big Lebowski, Pay It Forward, Fight Club, Joe Vs the Volcano...most movies with Kevin Spacey, John Cusack, Monica Bellucci

C) Anything but Country

D) Paella, Stroganoff, pizza

The six things I could never do without

My kids, books to read, cell phone (mainly for texting!), sex, my wife and our friend, a way to stay in shape

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How to get a special someone back in my arms, how to help my kids have more fulfilling lives

On a typical Friday night I am

Taking the kids to the pool, cooking dinner, watching TV with the family - Fridays are for relaxing from the week!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I use ellipses way too often...

Editors

You should message me if

You want to talk to a nice guy or you have questions about polyamory - I'm not an expert, but I can give an insider's perspective ;)

Or if you just have a thing for big guys who can also hold up their end of a conversation about most things.